I am pretty embarrassed by my inflation fetish. I'm not sure if I should tell anyone about it, or just keep it to myself.
Should I tell people I have an inflation fetish?
Tue, 04/25/2017 - 20:04
#1
Should I tell people I have an inflation fetish?
Tue, 04/25/2017 - 20:55
#3
Blue_Eyes
Why would you tell anyone about it?
The only person who should potentially know about it is your significant other.
Tue, 04/25/2017 - 21:08
#4
AirPump
I personally find no shame in having this fetish, so I have no real reason to hide it. That being said, if someone has no reason to know, there's no reason to tell them. Basically, if no one asks, I don't tell. There's no sense in just broadcasting it openly. No one wants to hear about it, unless they ask.
Wed, 04/26/2017 - 20:18
#5
doubleintegral
Not wanting to share a very personal kink doesn't mean you're ashamed of it.
Wed, 04/26/2017 - 01:02
#6
What airpump says. It's your own choice though and I'm honestly curious why you feel like you need to tell people. This question comes up regularly and I've always been a little confused as to why so many people feel some kind of obligation to 'come out' as it were.
Wed, 04/26/2017 - 01:15
#7
firnov
The only person (in real live) who knows about my inflation-fetish is my ex girlfriend. She is the only one because i had a sexual and honnest relation with her. She handeld my fetish well and with recpect.
Personally i think that a fetish is a thing that you only need to share with your sexual-pathner. It has not much need for other people to know what turns you on.
I dont think going public with a fetish brings a lot of happiness because some haters.
Wed, 04/26/2017 - 01:43
#8
Keep it to yourself, or at most your significant other. Only bad things will come from telling people, and you can never un-tell it.
Wed, 04/26/2017 - 02:53
#9
It might partly depend on the flexibility of your sexual preference. If it's just one thing accompanied by vanilla sexuality, then don't bother. If it's obligatory, as it is with me (I don't have any vanilla sexuality unless you count being heterocurious), then people need to know and it may form an important part of your identity. For me, it's one of the things my subconscious used to flag up the fact that I was gender dysphoric, so it did turn out to be significant and to have major consequences.
Wed, 04/26/2017 - 05:43
#10
Maybe you mean sharing your inflation fascination with people?
Is it what you mean? What if you share your stories with us?
My two pence
There were two barmaids and two balloons in a cafe last month, and I noticed their clothes and balloons bear very similar patterns and colours - amazing coincidence. So I asked them - are you dressed like these balloons or vice versa? They laughed a lot. We exchanged balloon jokes on next visits
Also, one of my new colleagues has a habit of telling people she feels she's going to pop. So, eventually I've shared my DA account Lopni with her. She looked at my pictures, and for whatever crappy artist I am, she's learning to draw from me. Maria enjoys a distraction from routine when she and her son visit us
Mon, 05/01/2017 - 14:23
#11
Loved the patterned balloons story
Wed, 04/26/2017 - 09:28
#12
Fleetingsanity
My personal oppinion is nope. I don't feel any shame in my inflation kink but I know it's an odd one. So you might just get odd looks when you bring it up. On top of that I can't think of any reason my buddies or family or even extended friends would need to know about a sexual kink I have. Just like I don't need to know about theirs. That's stuff you talk about with your SO or fuck buddy or something else like that.
Wed, 04/26/2017 - 11:37
#13
darth_clone19
I dont like telling people what I like sexually unless Im going to have sex with them.
Wed, 04/26/2017 - 12:03
#14
Thanks to everyone who replied! I think you're all very right. Again, thanks for the help!
Wed, 04/26/2017 - 13:03
#15
AirPump
No problem, just remember, if you wouldn't bring it up in usual daily conversation (such as bowel movements, illness, etc.), there's no reason to share with anyone who doesn't specifically ask or has a reason to know, such as your sexual partner(s).
Don't feel guilty for "hiding" anything, cause you're not. You're merely keeping private things private, as they should be.
Wed, 04/26/2017 - 17:07
#16
airtankgirl5
Phooey, shout it from the treetops, tell your parents, tell co-workers and customers how good they'd look inflated. Describe it to them in luxurious detail, don't stop until one of you is turned on.
Stupid frikin idea.
Wed, 05/03/2017 - 23:14
#17
Edit: minor
- Hhhelp!
Amanda's gaze made a full turn as she slowly rotated in the air.
- Help, ph-lease!..
The sound was coming from below. She noticed a balloon hanging upside down, a long violet scarf entangled in treetops was preventing the blimp from falling to the sky. Amanda pointed her tow to the sun and squeezed her breast with right knee as she bolted downwards. She already recognized Sarah - one of the employees of her regular-life-alter-ego, the one who was credited as inventor of "Darth Mandy" thing. When balloon shouted from treetops again, she was already hovering face to face with her, also upside down to make eye contact
- Hhe-, - Sarah had a look as if she just swallowed the plea for help and it didn't fit in her thoat. Her eyes became round
- What happened? - Superheroine inquired
- I uh... am stuck here.
Amanda looked amused, yet at the same time she noticed no branches are near Sarah's skin, she wasn't getting bigger and looked excited but otherwise her skin colour was healthy and not overstrained so she was totally safe
- Why did you inflate?
- Today was the day! Mic introduced me to his parents. Mic's dad sat where he stood, and his mom dropped a cup - they were adorable! And I... inflated in front of them.
- What for?
- So that they knoooow. Then Mic and I went to open air cafe, and he told me about work, I was waiting and sipping Helicola and probably got a bit winded. He looked at my expansion and kept describing his deals, it was so frustrating! I mean, we are together for three months now, and my boobs inflate, and all of me inflate right into him - and he isn't even aroused!
- You're safe now.
- Thank you, Airtankgirl! You understand me and men are so insensitive! Then he told me he'd be right back and headed to restrooms leaving a blimp of me. I boiled and expanded and then I felt it - I was afloat! Some kind-hearted elderly tried to catch me but once I rose above tables I rotated and slipped from their hands. One boy caught me by the nose, I screamed and he caught me by hair! It was painful, he shouted "sorry" and let me fly! The wind played with me, it was so scary!.. How do I know he cares about me at all? Mic I mean?
- Pity. Why did you order Helicola? - Amanda tilted her head and put on a polite smile. It wasn't Sarah's first cup and Helicola wasn't the only thing she was drinking.
- W-why? Why does it matter? Aren't you listening? I'm inflatable, so I inflate!
Inflatable. That word again - Amanda was thinking to herself all the while she deflated her unfortunate subordinate and brought her down to park's fountain. Inflatable - able to inflate. Because I can - even if I'm drunk, wind conditions don't permit take off, there are trees around and nobody to help me. These people definitely got used there's always a superheroine around to save them. They got used there's always somebody inflatible who inflates for a purpose, not because she is able to.
- I'd keep your inflation private and indoors if I were you, - superheroine evaded Sarah's happy embrace and bolted to the sky. If someone has time for stupid freaking ideas then she's not working hard enough. Tomorrow will be a hard day for Sarah
Wed, 04/26/2017 - 22:31
#18
Blimp Boy
I only tell people who have shared embarrassing secrets with me. It shows that we have trust for each other.
Mon, 09/03/2018 - 04:19
#19
SpryCarrion
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Thu, 04/27/2017 - 17:28
#20
Margeret Moonlught
No.
Mon, 05/01/2017 - 17:05
#21
hentai enthusiast
why the hell would you want to?!
Tue, 05/02/2017 - 03:39
#22
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=vfJ7DqyDl9w
Personally, there is no shame in having a fetish. dont make a big scene about it though. It really isn't that big of a deal. It's just something that you are into, and as long as it doesn't hurt anyone, then it's fine. If you want to tell anyone about it, not everyone will agree with it, but most people are going to accept it.