New Guy to RP

Been reading and enjoying Bodyinflation for a number of years now, just recently joined the cite. I am a male, huge fan of 98% of inflation, however I would NOT like to RP with men. I have never met a woman who is into this particular brand of sexual fetishim... would like to change that! Curently have no IM service. Might change however for the time being would like to RP on the site exclueively.