Hello! My husband is into inflation and I'm looking for ideas on how to roleplay/etc with him. I honestly have no interest in it, but thoroughly enjoy his enjoyment of it, so I encourage him. I'm very new to the even the concept of inflation and need some material to work with. Ideas?
Ideas for a Good Time
Tue, 08/21/2012 - 05:16
#1
Ideas for a Good Time
Tue, 08/21/2012 - 08:13
#3
Haha! Perfect! The characters in that story even look like us a bit, right down to the unbelieving expression on his face when I start talking about it XD
Thanks :D
Tue, 08/21/2012 - 18:01
#4
Thanks a lot Klaeresource! For pointing out my drawings. You make me feel very very proud :)
Funny thing is that I never roleplayed. But that scenario came to mind, developed itself through some hours, and I wanted to catch it in drawings.
I don't think I made it very consciously, but now that you (GingerSnap)mentioned it, and Klaeresourse pointed my work, my character Rachel seems to enjoy the guy's reaction more than the inflation itself.
Tue, 08/21/2012 - 19:14
#5
darth_clone19
Well, for starters you have to get a good view of what it is he likes exactly.
Wed, 08/22/2012 - 10:57
#6
Yeah, even though I don't get any pleasure from the fetish, I do truly enjoy his pleasure from it, so I can't see how this can be a bad thing! I almost feel like I'm cheating because all it takes is a few buzzwords and he's putty in my hands XD
I've got a pretty solid idea already and he shares drawings he likes with me. He was so shy at first, but warmed up the more I was ok with it and talks with me freely now. My biggest problem is my knowledge is still very limited and so I run out of topics when describing scenarios or roleplayng and end up feeling a little silly. What are some good scenes or words I can wield?
Wed, 08/22/2012 - 17:49
#7
airtankgirl5
I usually suggest finding the things he likes, meaning the artwork or even better, stories that appeal to him. Art will tell you what he likes to see, stories will tell you what he likes to hear.
Good luck.
Wed, 08/22/2012 - 22:34
#8
darth_clone19
In my experience, I often remind partners that most of the time I dont even care to listen to new things, no such thing as too much of a good thing :p But I guess everyone's different.
Thu, 08/23/2012 - 00:16
#9
I know what you mean but i think it can get tired eventually. Thinking of the recent blueberrification script i made, i found it a lot more interesting than i expected because i've never gone there before. On a related subject, GingerSnap, i'm in the process of putting together hypnosis scripts and i wonder if you might consider, for your partner's benefit of course, using one to convince yourself you're inflating through the use of trigger words.
One thing you might try is to take a leotard, put a beachball under it and cut a hole in the crotch, then inflate it. It works fantastically well and it's very cheap. Or you could stuff your clothes with cushions or pillows. A rather more daring approach, which i admit would quite possibly freak a lot of people out, is for you to hold your breath out while he gently blows into your mouth, while not lying on top of you. I'm passive, i.e. i want to be inflated rather than be the inflator, but i know that if a certain person did that to me even once i would probably be, for example, willing to do all the housework every day for the rest of my life, and i presume swapping the roles according to what he wants would elicit the same response. However, do be careful if you choose to do that.
It should also be fantastically bonding for the two of you if you try these things.
Thu, 08/23/2012 - 00:28
#10
To be honest. I shared my fetish with a girl once, and it was amazing. allthough the only thing she did, was telling me about what happened at the office/school/town etc and it was pretty much enough. All she needed to know was pretty much how I liked to imagine it.
But then again. Don't do it TO often, because my experience is that I got a bit tired of it and lost interest in inflation. So I'd suggest you keep it to times where your in a bit of dull times to fire your boy up. My point really is that don't overdo it. It's like grat food. If you eat it to much, you will just get tired of it :)
Anyway, good luck!
Vope~
Thu, 08/23/2012 - 14:00
#11
Wow thanks! Thess are some good ideas. We're both into a lot of different things so we mix it up a lot. I wanted to get to know about this a bit more to help spice up that aspect of our relationship. We're both very aggressive sexually so the inflator vs the inflatee works well with that aspect, so I'm not completely lost. He's not into realistic stuff as much as he used to be and mostly likes it when I describe how I would inflate someone else. Other than "I plug them in, pump, and they get bigger" I'm flailing a little bit. Though for him that's usually more than enough. Heck, he's happy getting anythin so anything inflation related it just extra toppings.
His last girlfriend was not happy with his fetish, so I'm trying to sort of make it up for him. He ended up spending more time online with you guys than having actual relations. I've already turned that on it head and he's happy as a clam, but as a happy/horny/pervert little wifey I like to go above and beyond the call of marital duties.Thank again guys!
Wed, 08/29/2012 - 20:23
#12
darth_clone19
Seems him and I are kinda similar in that respect. As for description, it kills me when women describe it, describe the different body parts inflating, using key words like balloon, or mocking comparisons (sausage like fingers and stuff like that). Also, a lot of it is in the tone as well.
Thu, 08/23/2012 - 22:01
#13
I really hope your guy knows how lucky he is that you're putting so much effort into this :P I'd generally agree with what the others are saying, I had a GF who got really good at figuring out which "buttons to press" so to speak, that got the best reactions. Sometimes all it takes is a simple phrase said the right way, and you can toss him into a tailspin. I would say, try to sneak it in to tease him when he least expects it, that works wonders too...
Fri, 08/24/2012 - 00:27
#14
Aye.. In generall. I'd say just suprise him with whatever he likes! Not everyone like the thought of being inflated by a hose or whatever~ Like my fantasy is more about someone suddenly start inflating slowly and curvy at first. I hate hoses and fast/instant inflation, so even though we are all into inflation, we are all very diffrent as well! Good luck and have fun! You two sure seems lucky! :)
Fri, 08/24/2012 - 10:07
#15
pjoker
One of the key aspects of the inflation fetish is this: inflation is a visual metaphor for sexual arousal, and popping corresponds to orgasm.
There are other aspects to it, of course, but that's an important one to get because it can be applied directly to real sex. If you listen to "Valerie Remix" from Cyndi Irresisitble's audio files, you can imagine that if it were in some unknown language we would probably interpret it sexually. It would sound as if she's being unexpectedly pleased. She starts with a bit of whimpering, which builds into moaning and groaning, and then there's a final moan before the pop.
My suggestion is pretty simple: during normal intercourse, as you're going at it, talk about how you're inflating in correlation to your arousal.
- Instead of "I'm getting really turned on," say "I'm feeling kinda puffy, feel like I might be blowing up."
- As things progress closer to climax, talk about yourself blowing up, describe your various body parts enlarging.
- For an extra punch pretend that he's the one causing it, that his thrusts are pumping you up. "Every pump is inflating me bigger and bigger..."
- And when you're about to climax, say, "I'm gonna pop, I'm gonna explode, [moan]." And so on.
Visualize/imagine your arousal as yourself expanding, and describe that to him. I think that's what I mean.
I've been lucky enough to have a girl do this for me. It pleased me so much it probably killed a fair number of brain cells and took a few years off my life.
Hope that was helpful. If you need me to elaborate, I'm happy to.
Sun, 08/26/2012 - 20:28
#16
I've tried something like that with delightful results. He asked me today if I've been studying because aparrently my diolog has gotten much better XD Thanks again all!
Mon, 08/27/2012 - 06:39
#17
Hey, another question. He suggested I make some recordings for him (he really likes my voice) but I'm unsure how to go about making a script or sound effects or whatever. Ideas?
Mon, 08/27/2012 - 08:47
#18
Praxis makes perfect. So the way to learn how to do it is to get in there and work at it. Audacity is a multi-platform, free audio recording and editing app. I'm not particularly fond of it, as I've found it to be very unstable and "crashy." Others can't laud it enough. If you want to explore other audio editors, tell us which platform you are using (Mac, Windows, Linux) so that we can make recommendations.
Mon, 08/27/2012 - 19:19
#19
Ok. I'll give that a go. A friend of my husband's even offered to edit, which is lovely since I've no experience with such things. I've been offered sex phone jobs before due to my voice, have recorded voiceovers for traning videos before, am a trained singer, and figured why not benefit at least with my husband!
Ideas for script or just wing it? In your all opinions better to role play inflating someone or being inflated? Thanks pjoker for those files, now I've got an inkling. Doesn't do a thing for me, but I can see how someone who it does tickle would get excited over it. I'm not interested in hyponisis type recordings (but thank you, nineteenthly, for the kind offer).
Another questions. Neither of us are large (he's very slim and I'm curvy but only where I should be). So when I say things like "your belly is so large" while I'm running my hand over his pancake flat abs it's a little tricky to get into it. He hasn't expressed interest in pillows (naked seems better for us both XD). Suggestions for at me getting more comfortable with, well, bold face lying.
Regardless, my guy is practically swelling with pride of his little wifey ;)
Tue, 08/28/2012 - 00:02
#20
Well thanks for thanking me!
Concerning whether it's you doing the inflating or being inflated, that's really down to personal preference but i know i'm in a slight minority as a man who wants to be inflated rather than the other way round. My impression is that the majority of women who are into this want to be the balloon and the majority of men who are want women to be the balloons. I suppose the problem with asking him would be that it would spoil the element of surprise. You could try both.
Tue, 08/28/2012 - 17:07
#21
pjoker
Where can we nominate you for the Best Wife in the Universe Award?
Start with the thread on "Visual Story"—don't bother with the links. The art is posted in the thread, if you scroll down. Simply a performance like this, even without a costume or props, would drive many inflation fans crazy. Fine tune the performance by learning your hubby's particular inflation tastes.
Good luck, and enjoy yourself.