How many people have told their significant other bf, gf, fiance, wife husband etc.??

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Mon, 04/04/2016 - 15:51

cdvmc

So I read through the post about inflating real people and it seemed as though the imaginary inflationists were prominent.
I'm interested in the responses of those of you who inflate for real.

1. Have told your partners about your fetish?
2. How did you go about that?
3. How did they react?
4. Where did you go from there?
5. Assuming the response was positive or that you continued your relationship...What did you propose or how did you propose a "couples" experience with your fetish?

*** Most importantly I'm asking these questions because I'm seeking answer to my own dilemma and not just trying to strike up a conversation.
I have a new someone in my life and I'm trying to workout how to constructively introduce my fetish, since it seems so extreme to me. I can see if
I don't soon it will come up sooner or later.

Thank you in advance for your thoughts. :)

Tue, 04/05/2016 - 00:39

AirPump

I might be able to help with my answers. No guarantees though.

1. Yes

2. I waited until we were in a "comfortable" part of our relationship, then we sat own and had an "open discussion" about our fetishes, since we both knew that they would eventually come up anyway.

3. I'd say it was a positive reaction. She didn't understand it (at first), but she was willing to at least listen.

4. We discussed it, and eventually she agreed to try it for my amusement, if I'd be willing to try things to suit her fetishes. Comprimise.

5. After a few experimental runs (first she inflated for me, then I for her), we each turned the controls over to the other. I inflated her, then she inflated me. Eventually we inflated together simultaneously.

All in all, I'd say it was a very atypical experience. I think it helped a ton that she is a very open-minded person. That will greatly effect your experience.

Be understanding. Talk about her interests as well. Talkiing about "smaller" things and building upto inflation is a good way to break the ice, and encourage her to let her own fetishes out. The important thing is to let her know that participation is not manditory to continue the relationship, nor will it alter the nature of such in any way. Of course, that may not be true for you, in which case I can't really help.

When it comes to desiding whether or not she'll actually try it, be it her inflating for your, you for her, whatever, consider comprimising. Be willing to try something she would like in exchange. That goes a long way.

The other thing I did was show her some of the content online (this forum included), starting with the "milder" stuff and building up from there. Once again, my girl has a very open mind, and that was likely why it went as well as it did for us.

Fill 'er up!

Tue, 04/05/2016 - 07:00

JohnDough

I did. Everyone understood it and was willing to inflate in a suit for me.
Sometimes they revealed their fetishes aswell

Tue, 04/05/2016 - 10:09

Yrrall_Dlok1

(Please be aware that my relationship is distance and heavily based around online and phonecall/text interactions until we manage to organise things better around our situations0

1. Have told your partners about your fetish?

Yes and some friends that are all very wide spoken

2. How did you go about that?

When she asked me out I forwarned her that I was a tad weird (not just this fetish, mostly how I interact with the world too) compared to most people. I chose to be up front about it highlighting that the parts of the fetish I like are light hearted (I don't really dig real life inflation and keep it fantasy and balloon based). I started off by explaining my particular likes and kinks, then the broader scope that I wasn't into and then showing her some stories.

3. How did they react?

Her first initial reaction was 'huh' very flat but thoughtful. She then told me about her S&M and vampire kink and we both found middle ground in there (she also has a blood fetish but that is mostly too extreme for me) and apparently I am quite mean. The next day she started teasing me (in the fun way) and she likes to remind me that she knows and occaisionally uses balloons for stuffing her clothes (she blames me as she has aquired a slight balloon fetish now)

4. Where did you go from there?

We haven't actually interacted physically as of yet but she's stayed mine for 2.5 years. She's remained mine and the fetish isn't the be all end all of the relationship. She makes me happy, I make her happy.

5. Assuming the response was positive or that you continued your relationship...What did you propose or how did you propose a "couples" experience with your fetish?

We haven't really come to an arangement we just go with the flow.

Tue, 04/05/2016 - 12:03

firnov

1. Yes i tolled my last ex girlfriend about it

2. We just talked about things about what we like (in sex), on a monent we just both talkef about having fetishes.

3. She first dindent understand my. Then i told it in the easiest way. "I like blowing up girls till they explode" . She told me it was not her kind of thing, but she dont have any problems with it.

4. Our relation just goes like normal. But sometimes she did the little things to make me happy like: inhaling so her belly get bigger, or saying after eating "im so full, i think im going to pop".

The fetish is a part you need to exept. If you exept yourself, a good pathner will do the same. But just dont force her in to it if she dont like it, that is wrong to do

And boom goes the inflatee

Thu, 04/07/2016 - 16:58

cdvmc

Thank you each for your responses...your honesty has been much appreciated and your words have been the push I need to talk to my girlfriend. It's nice to hear from people in the same scenarios.

I think this is exactly why a site like this is so important. :)

Sat, 04/09/2016 - 03:18

(Reply to #6) #7

firnov

No problem. Im happy i can help you

And boom goes the inflatee

Sat, 04/09/2016 - 20:02

All4him

My boyfriend only mentioned his fetish once. I took a huge initiative and asked him and basically told him I wanted to make his dreams come true.

Long story short I looooove inflation now. My advice is to bring it up in the short. And then later on to have a deeper discussion. That's what we did and now we are so close. I hope it goes well!!!!!

Keep on biggering!

Sun, 04/10/2016 - 00:33

Yonder

Well I once had an amazing inflation rp on Kik with a girl literally in my area. I was using a fake name though since I'm too afraid of using my real one. Maybe I should have asked her to meet. Sigh.

Anyways, never had a real intimate relationship so I've never thought about it. I probably would though after a few years and complete trust.

Thu, 04/14/2016 - 02:57

#10

free6skul

i say it to the girl i want to be with . i find the reactions verry exiting sometimes

Thu, 04/14/2016 - 12:21

#11

deleted_20180328 (not verified)

1. Have told your partners about your fetish?

Yes.

2. How did you go about that?

Just came out with it one day. We were discussing sex and I mentioned rubber suits and how I liked inflatables.

3. How did they react?

Pretty well. First of allshe didn't really get it but she's supportive. We're still together after 14 years. So I guess we're doing alright.

4. Where did you go from there?

To a shop that sells rubber clothing.

5. Assuming the response was positive or that you continued your relationship...What did you propose or how did you propose a "couples" experience with your fetish?

It varies the rubber suits and clothing thing is very easy to be shared experiences. Plus we also have more vanilla experiences. Keep it varied!

Thu, 04/14/2016 - 14:03

#12

Berry-DukeAlt

I tell friends, and they are all cool with it

Thu, 04/14/2016 - 20:57

#13

doubleintegral

1. My wife knows.

2. I have no idea. Don't even remember.

3. She was confused about it at first and then just thought it was kind of silly.

4. She's not a fan of it, however every now and then she mentions that she would like to be Violet in a full inflatable blueberry costume for Halloween sometime.

5. We don't roleplay inflation in the bedroom; not her cup of tea and I prefer to leave it in the fantasy realm. We do roleplay pregnancy and BE though.

Stories I have written

Wed, 04/20/2016 - 05:29

#14

Auriga

I've shown some of my stories to my wife.

Wed, 04/20/2016 - 13:07

(Reply to #14) #15

Sakeen

What did she think of them?

Tue, 05/17/2016 - 00:16

#16

Grumper

My partner sort of knows. He teases me about me becoming a blueberry, and sometimes will roleplay a little during oral.

When I first brought it up, he described it as "just so silly and cartoony, I don't know where to start'" but he's coming round to it with some gentle nudges.

Gaius

Tue, 05/17/2016 - 18:28

#17

WinglyKing

1. Have told your partner about your fetish? Yes, and only recently. At the end of this month will be our 4 anniversary...and I sort of felt bad that it took me this long to tell her. I told her originally about a year ago a little bit about my breast expansion fetish, but only about two weeks ago told her everything, from all things expansion, to inflation, to macro/micro, all that.

2. How did you go about that? Honestly I just took her aside one day and explained it to her. Being level headed and direct is how I went about it. Two things really spurred me into doing it though: Having attended a "Size in Relationships" panel at Sizecon, and that she is soon to move it with me. I figured it was best to tell her before she moved in, because to me it seemed like it would have been cheap to tell her afterward.

3. How did they react? She understood it for the most part. She didn't have many questions, but the ones she did have were along the lines of "What's interesting about it to you?" "Is it all just fantasy, or is there any real part about it?" "What can I possibly do with it?" I was legitimately surprised that she took it in so calmly.

4. Where did you go from there? Still working on that right now. We both are sort of at a loss of how to apply it in the bedroom. Neither of us are the roleplay type, and she hasn't issued any interest in seeing material regarding this fetish. For now I'm just letting it all sink in for her, and I'm going to let her be the one that next asks what to do. That'll let me know that she's in some way ready to move forward with it.

5. Assuming the response was positive or that you continued your relationship...What did you propose or how did you propose a "couples" experience with your fetish? I mentioned roleplay and pretending with balloons and such, or at the very least showing her some of the art or videos regarding expansion and inflation. Like the previous question, I'm just giving her time to think about it. When she's ready, she's ready, and I can afford to wait.

In my Utopia there will be helium, lots of helium

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