So, I'm a lesbian, currently in a relationship, and revealing that I have this fetish turned out surprisingly well, though the revelation itself took three hours and many prying questions.
My partner's been alarmingly indulgent, but she's been asking questions about what I'd like her to do in regards to it and I'm pretty well shell-shocked about discussing it in the first place, let alone figuring out what I'd like her to do to me.
So why am I discussing it on a gigantoforum? I'm hoping that if I can talk to strangers on the internet about it, maybe it will make it easier to talk about in general by removing some of the sting of freshness.
So, um, for any of you who have anything to say in regards to this - what, if anything, do you (or would you!) expect or hope for from your partner? How would you like to have your fetish realised within the bounds of reality?
My particular kink involves being inflated via her blowing into me, and then the ubiquitous threat of popping. She's been asking a lot about the popping part and I'm really not sure what to say, because I've never had to think about it before.
Sounds like an amazing opportunity for role play.
You have many options. You can prime her on the things you want to hear. Key phrases seem to be incredibly powerful, even when they don't reflect reality. "You're getting so big. I wonder if you'll pop."
You could use a blindfold, so you can be further immersed in the scenario you create together without obvious discrepancies between fantasy and reality getting in the way.
If you're more technically minded you could rig balloons, beachballs, hoses and such to take things even further.
The sky's the limit, if you like helium.
Perhaps getting her to read your favourite inflation stories (or writing them, if you can't find something that really matches your tastes) would help.
You are very lucky to find someone open minded and willing to share your fantasy.
Best of luck with your adventures.
Pongo