Okay, so... Those of you who have talked to me on and off the forums here know that I've been seeing a guy for awhile who I have wanted to tell about my fetish. The problem? I'm -terribly- shy about it.
That said, I try to be careful about looking at certain things on my computer when he's around, buuuut... I've slipped here and there. I recently 'accidentally' clicked a video where a guy demonstrates his ball inflation suit. About halfway through, he looked over at my monitor and, rather than say "what the hell is that?" or "why are you looking at that?", he surprised me and said that he's curious about what the suits are like. He even started to say the fetish is common, then backpedaled a little.
In my... Infinite goofiness, rather than take the obvious chance to tell him, I giggled and said it looked funny (to be fair, the way the guy was stuck on his back, kicking his feet... It made the suit jiggle and while I loved watching that, it was funny for some reason).
Now I'm desperate to tell him and thinking I might ask him if he'd really be interested in trying the suit out.
I know someone here has experience with inflation suits! Anyone have any advice? I'm... Well, a mix of scared and excited...
I'm in a similar boat, I'd say don't spring it on him like that. He may have said it was interesting, but you also mentioned he tok it back quickly. he too may not be comfortable with this idea, he might not even know what to do with himself over it, take it very slowly, test the waters, and see where it goes