would you use a fetish-specialised dating site

Is it really that hard to find a girl? I've told every girl I've been with since 1980 about the fetish, and NOT ONE freaked! Some really had fun with it, others thought it was "cute" and it never came up again, but they all thought it was harmless, and certainly none of them took it personally.

I think that the ones that really got into it did so simply because they saw how excited I got, and if you're with a cool person and there is real mutual affection there, that's what you do - try and please each other! I don't know why this comes up so often, just relax guys. If you're meant to be together, a fun and harmless little sexual fetish will never be an issue.

Agreed.

Actually, I just had the greatest RP sex of my life with a girl on MySpace that has the same fetish. I'm telling you, luck has nothing to do with it.

RP Sex, not actual fornication.

I mean, good for you sparky, but its not really that impressive considering.

So you already have a girlfriend that does this fetish sometimes and you still get online and RP with other girls? Kind of a greedy man...

hi, its bluespell, my acount got suspended for some unknown reason, im asuming someone 'up there' at the top hates me, but anyway...

to me you guys sound mostly like your the kind of people who have no problem picking up girls, you could prolly walk out into the street, pick a girl and have her as your girlfreind in less than a week. have you ever thought about the ugly people? the ones who cant get a girlfreind easily. ive only ever had one girlfreind, in some places and for some people, girlfreinds arent easy to come across. besides, generations change, old man (this now aimed at dexy) of course your gonna say its easy, your generation was probably easy to pick up, not to mention you probably live in america, and if your about 30 or so, maybe youve forgotten what its like to be 18 or so, maybe you've never had to battle better looking guys, you've probably never even been an underdog. well guess what, i live there, that garbage where all the ugly people and losers get dumped. my cat has died, my house is falling down, ive got an ingrown toenail, ive bruised my foot and i live in england. im surprized i havent lost anything else.

besides, all i did was suggest an idea, to see how many people would actually use it, i did not start this post to be belittled and reminded of how hard it is for me to get a girlfreind or trust people. good day, sir, and for the rest of you that left bad comments, good day to you sirs too. has ANYBODY actually considered what its like for those less fortunate? citezensix said alot of the girls with the fetish seem self centred, to me, those of you saying getting a girlfreind is easy are self centred, not thinking what its like to not be able to do that. at the moment, nineteenthly, citizen6 and shogun seem like the few people who actually understand the less fortunate.
dexy is mearly a king flaunting his wealth.

Well it's been kind of hard for me to meet "real people" for the past while as I've had some medical conditions I've been getting over. Kind of lame when people say that kind of stuff without thinking there might be a reason.

Yep, that pretty much sums me up.

Actually Blueguy, the last two girls that I had IM sex with on MySpace were from England! So I don't know what to tell you except hang in there. I'm not 30, I'm in my early 40's, and it was easy to get girls then yes, but it is now too. Just a matter of being self confident I suppose.

It sounds neat, but... I think I'd almost like to toy around with the person I find myself with to see what they're into or could be persuaded to try out.

Plus with a fetish-based dating site, wouldn't you be a little worried that the draw of the fetish would be more of a center point in your relationships from that site than it ought to be?

Really, it would be fantastic to find out that my boyfriend is into the same fetish, or at least willing to put up with it and play along for my sake, but I'm not going to be too bothered if he's not also into expansion. If I really need to, I can get my inflation fix via the internet and my imagination. =) (And for that, I thank every last one of you! =P)