Need help in understanding how to please boyfriend

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Pleasingirlfriend
Need help in understanding how to please boyfriend

I just started dating a guy who trusted me enough to tell me about his fetish of inflation. I have done a lot of online searching and I am not into doing anything harmful to myself but would like to know how to please him somehow with his fetish. Any suggestions? 

fractalstills
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Hi. First off it's really cool that you're accepting of his fetish. In my opinion, that's the most important thing. It's all too common for someone to be grossed out or even scared off from things they don't understand, I've experienced that myself with telling girlfriends about this fetish.  

Now I know your post is a couple weeks old, but since he just recently told you about it, my advice would be to first tell him that you are OK with this fetish and even curious about it. I know if my girlfriend came to me saying that, it would make me feel relieved and excited to move forward.  Now, as for participating, the simplest and safest thing to do is roleplaying. You can offer to dress up for him (a beach ball under the shirt can go a long way for us) and you can even use very simple air pumps to blow up the beach ball - or exercise ball - and simulating "inflating".   That and some dirty talk about inflating/being inflated can go a really long way! Hope this helps :) 

throwaway261

Uh, fractalstills?  This was a double post that never got deleted.  Most of the conversation took place in the twin posting.

http://bodyinflation.org/node/31489

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