Hellow all, im really not into this stuff, like at all. my boyfriend is, and he seems embarrassed about it. the only time he brings it up is over text, and the only time he ever was willing to try was when we were drunk.. anyways i love him and want to be able to please him even if its a little sillie to me, because hes not afraid to be sillie with me but i dont really know how to go about this whole inflation thing. the first time we tried it he had a little bike pump that he used in his butt, is that normal? and if so what exactly should the partner do? should the partner be the one pumping the air? im already pretty embarrassed....
Please Help Me
Sat, 09/13/2014 - 15:02
#1
Please Help Me
Sat, 09/13/2014 - 18:49
#3
airtankgirl5
Of course it's silly, we're talking about inflation fantasy here, there's not a lot that's sillier. Fortunately, that's ok, you're allowed to be silly in sex.
So, the bad news is that there is a TREMENDOUS variety in inflation fantasy. Which means, before any of us can really help you, you need to help us. We both need information. You need to find out how and what exactly manifests his inflation kink, and then you'll be able to ask the people here that have an understanding of it (I, for example, am not into actual physical inflation, so I can't really help you given what I see of his particular tastes so far).
You're going to need a whole lot of communication to get through it :)
Sat, 09/13/2014 - 19:15
#4
luk99
Yeah communication is the most important thing
Tue, 09/16/2014 - 14:25
#5
Best thing would just to ask him what he wants. Nobody else here on this forum can know what excactly he wants and what his fantasy is.
Tue, 09/23/2014 - 10:11
#6
As always, I agree with Slayer.
Let me start by saying that he's incredibly lucky that you are willing to do his fetish. This is how he gets off (and me, but i'm into more holding-breath inflation), and there's nothing you can do to change this. My advice to you would be to just sit him down and start by saying you're completely willing to experiment, and DO NOT offer any double-standards, just be there sexually completely - because if you are not onboard 100%, he will feel embaressed. DO NOT, by any means tell your friends or family without his consent - he's putting a lot of trust in you by telling you about it. As for "what to do", just keep asking specific questions on what to do - and do it. I don't have any experience with sharing my fetish with a partner, but I know that I would want the relationship to be completely understanding of said fetish. Don't think of it as "sillie", because I know that a lot of us really this seriously, get rid of thinking that it's "sillie". Good luck with your relationship.