My husband came to me last night, said "Want to see a neat trick?" and he inflated his stomach. He was really turned on by it, but it honestly scared me a lot. I think my reaction was less than what he was expecting. I had never heard of it before.
So now I am doing a bit of research. He's thin, I'm a big girl...so obviously this isn't a far stretch from him loving my belly.
I've grown up my whole life being told I'm ugly and fat. I have recently gotten over the fact that I am a big girl, and it's thanks to him.
I guess my question is, how do I go about helping him realize his fetish? I don't have any desire for inflation, but I want him to be happy. He likes (in particular) blowing up his own stomach so it's rock hard. I think he wants me to be on top of him when he does.
I'm pretty much asexual, so I have no ideas on desire or what I can do to help him realize this. Any help on this, or adivce is appreciated.
Aloha!
It's very nice of you to ask yourself and others what you can do. For Maria and I it was - and still is - a great fun discovering what we like and enjoy about our different fetishes. After all this dance of two souls is what marriage is about, and sexual aspect is no different from any other. I don't want to throw spoilers and take the joy of discovery away from you two.
Also - some threads from the previous months:
http://www.bodyinflation.org/node/32836
http://www.bodyinflation.org/node/32835
For the new folks: http://www.bodyinflation.org/node/32878
Why do we have these silly ideas: http://www.bodyinflation.org/node/25333