Just to be sure, I'm not the only person here that has a girlfriend with this fetish right?
I'm not the only one right
Sat, 03/14/2015 - 01:33
#1
I'm not the only one right
Wed, 04/01/2015 - 07:08
#3
I am asking a real question I just thought it was weird
Wed, 04/01/2015 - 07:44
#4
BalloonInflator
Well, no. You're not the only one. There are lots of people on here with significant others. Who specifically, I don't know, and I'm sure that's not something they would have me divulge even if I did know. Browse the forums. The posts with topics like "how do I tell my [whatever] about this?" are usually written by someone with a significant other. If not, there may be some advice in there by someone who is in a relationship.
If you're looking for help with something, be specific. Cryptic questions don't get a lot of attention here. Otherwise, we just assume you're trolling and ignore you.
Wed, 04/01/2015 - 12:25
#5
Another Canadian Guy
Sometimes people think that because we have (to society such a) strange fetish, a lot of people think that we are all fat male neckbeards in hidden basements. Truth be told (and anyone who rationally knows human beings) is that were pretty much all regular people with an uncommon kink. Some of us are married, many of us have professional jobs, and I can say that for the ones of us that are in the adult ages, probably have a pretty good handle on their life.
I'm not saying that you are thinking that, but it sounded a bit like that to me initially. I am an overthinker though, so that can get in the way.
Wed, 04/01/2015 - 12:56
#6
Are you both taking him to be asking whether he was the only person on here with a girlfriend?
I took him to be asking whether he was the only person whose significant other shared the fetish, though he does word it as though the only people he is directing it at are heterosexual males.
There are a few who have posted on here, but to what extent both the people in the relationship share the fetish I don't know. It could be that one of them has the fetish and the other one enjoys turning their partner on.
It's pretty rare for a relationship between two inflation fetishists to just arise I would imagine. This forum comprises an international community of fetishists, and has maybe a few thousand members. That's a pretty low population density of inflation fetishists, and not even considering that we don't all have compatable fetishes. If you live in a major city of several million people then there should be a reasonable chance that someone else in your city will also have the inflation fetish, but if you don't you may well be the only person within a hundred miles who has it.
But then it narrows down further. Will their fetish be compatable with yours and will they be the right gender and sexuality for a relationship? Outside of pure sexuality will the two of you even be compatable? Really it's totally unlikely that you will just meet someone, get talking, there be attraction there and then you discover you share this fetish. Of course it's much more likely that two people meet on this site, and live close enough to each other that they could get into a relationship. How many of those there are, I don't know, but it's probably just a handful.
Wed, 04/01/2015 - 19:57
#7
BalloonInflator
The way it was worded made it seem like he was trying to brag and/or start an argument. Either that or he was actulally looking for some advice regarding his relationship and just being vague about his inteded question.
I just want to make sure we're actually being helpful here.
Thu, 04/02/2015 - 03:10
#8
CreakGaspBang
Perhaps he (or she?) doesn't have this fetish but his girlfriend does and he's asking if anyone else uses this site to better understand their partners fetish. There've been posts of that kind before.
But yeah, first impression was that his girfriend had said that she could understand and maybe share his interests so he came on here to brag and make all the lonely perverts jealous.
Mon, 04/06/2015 - 06:24
#9
stop bragging
Mon, 04/06/2015 - 23:42
#10
I think if fate has dealt you this kind of hand, to be happy in a relationship you either have to be able to "sell" the fetish really well to your partner or just accept that sex for you is never going to be about your own physical pleasure, unless you get really, really lucky, and if you do, well, the pool of potential partners is so small that personality compatibility is improbable. That is, if you lack the flexibility to get into something else. The only way I have been able to "perform" physically in the past has been to fantasise while making love. Nowadays it's different but nowadays my body is the wrong sex for my partner. I was an obligate inflation fetishist. I lacked the option to get off on anything else. Not any more, although my sexual desires are still impossible to satisfy in real life.
I just think the best thing to do is to resign yourself to never getting what you want, and once you've done that sex takes on a different significance.
Tue, 04/07/2015 - 17:41
#11
All these really long responces so im just gonna say this.
K
Wed, 04/08/2015 - 05:41
#12
No, you are not :)
Are you asking a legitamate question, or just trying to brag?
Because the answer is no, you're not. Spend a little more time browsing the topics and you'd have known that already. There have been many asking things like "how do I talk to my girlfriend/wife/boyfriend/husband about this?" Just look around if there's something you need help with.
Just a little more. You can take it...I hope...