Need some insight.

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Fri, 02/05/2016 - 18:09

All4him

Need some insight.

Hey there folks

I'm getting involved in this site for a few reasons but as my name implies my boyfriend is really into inflation. I have researched a bit (thank god for these forums!) And have learned the basic how to's. What I don't know how to do is tell my partner I am more than willing to do whatever it is he wants. He thinks his fetish is weird... I don't. He's not into popping but he is into pregnant and breast and butt inflation. He also loves lactation stuff - which is cool because I'm breastfeeding so whatever. We met when I was pregnant and I often feel like he doesn't find me attractive anymore because I am not my round self. Don't get me wrong I'm a bigger girl but I am not huge like I used to be. That brings me to a question if I were to self inflate will I still look pregnant if I'm a larger girl? I'm sure he'd be excited as hell for me to do all of this but I have no idea how to bring it up. What do you all think I should do? Also... There was info on belly inflation but nothing about breast or butt which I am assuming are suitlike things so any info on that would be awesome. I appreciate all of you and cannot wait to learn more!

Keep on biggering!

Fri, 02/05/2016 - 18:30

doubleintegral

As far as how to tell him, you can either just tell him, or you can drop some hints by starting to roleplay the things he likes with him, maybe without asking him first.

No one except you can decide whether you "should" self-inflate, but I have seen videos of larger men and women self-inflating and they have gotten pretty big. With practice I imagine that looking pregnant would be possible, if only temporary.

Stories I have written

Fri, 02/05/2016 - 18:55

All4him

Okay thank you. Which is easier the water method or air. I've read mixed reviews of each as a first timer I want to be safe...

Keep on biggering!

Fri, 02/05/2016 - 21:08

Another Canadian Guy

First of all, welcome to the forums! Even if it's just to ask a couple questions it's always nice to see others trying to please their significant other's fetish, especially a 'weird' one like ours. Openness can still be rather rather this day and age, but I'll get back to the topic at hand.

Before I continue, id like to say that while I myself enjoy inflation, you should never try to put yourself through it if your not comfortable and/or willing. It's nice to try and please your SO but since this is a sort of temporary physical experience, like all things you have to be in the mood to enjoy it. If your not comfortable, don't try to push yourself for another. They'll understand.

Now, having years of real life inflation experience, you do have the two options between air and water, each with their pros and cons. Right off the bat I'd say try air as it's fast, clean, and there's next to no mess. You can use a bike pump but from the people I've chatted with they agree that getting a cheap aquarium pump is the most comfortable method. I personally find water the most comfortable but it takes a lot more time to do.

The thing is that if your a bigger girl the bigger you are the less distention will be shown. Since I don't know your body fat content, nor do I need to know, you'll have to see how much you'll distend yourself. The good news is that if your not really fat you will guaranteed show distention! Even a modest amount of weight will show a pregnant looking belly. On that note the air will fill your large intestine, and since that circles around the outside of your belly, when it fills it'll push out evenly giving that nice round pregnant look. I've actually heard that some girls have done this as a prank to their boyfriends or family ; )

Right off the bat you won't be able to take much in and that's perfectly normal. If you have the time take a few sessions to get used to it and your muscles will adapt quickly. There is a limit even if you get lots of experience, but you'll know when you've hit it.

( I don't want to get too crazy right off the bat with info, just let me know if you need more and I'll be happy to oblige)

Oh yeah, one more option if you have money to burn or consideration down the road, a site called SqueakLatex sells double layered inflatable latex suits and they made a pregnancy model with inflatable belly, breasts, and buttocks. Take a look into that if you guys get into harder roleplaying. Other companies do sell separate inflatables on sites like eBay, and they'll probably be cheaper, but they are separate and I dont know their quality (also, stay away from LatrxCatfish. They sell stuff but I've heard their quality is awful.)

Let me know if you need anything else!

(Not on here too often, replies might be slow.)

Fri, 02/05/2016 - 23:53

(Reply to #4) #5

NameTaken

Might want to read the tutorial in this guy's signature too.

Sat, 02/06/2016 - 05:56

(Reply to #5) #6

All4him

His tutorial is the reason I joined actually.. To find a community with the knowledge and openness in my opinion is hard to find. I knew I would get the answers I needed!

I am more than willing to do this. I may even be into it a little bit but I'm not sure. I'm submissive in nature so what turns me on is to make my partners fantasies come true. Thank you for all your help so far. I look forward to becoming more deeply connected to this community who knows maybe even get my man to join. I think it would help him realize its not that weird. Everyone has their thing!

Keep on biggering!

Sat, 02/06/2016 - 05:56

(Reply to #5) #7

All4him

His tutorial is the reason I joined actually.. To find a community with the knowledge and openness in my opinion is hard to find. I knew I would get the answers I needed!

Keep on biggering!

Sat, 02/06/2016 - 06:02

All4him

It may sound silly but my original idea was to surprise him on valentines day. Now I'm not sure if I want to do a few sessions first. I think in my mind that'd be the perfect way to show him I'm interested. He'd never suspect it as he hardly ever brings it up.. Like never anymore. Quite sad.

Keep on biggering!

Sat, 02/06/2016 - 07:14

firnov

Just let him get relext bevore you talk about his subject(s). He has to exept his feelings first, than he soon will relise that other people will exept his feelings.

And i think he still likes you a lot. It aint just because you was pregnant. If he only accepts pregnant woman he will had you as a one-night-stand when you were pregnant instead of a longer relation with (a not pregnant) you.

Just give him the time he needs. All he need is some support.

Good luck ;)

And boom goes the inflatee

Sat, 02/06/2016 - 16:05

#10

All4him

Alright guys

I have written him a letter. I chose this way for a few reasons. Primarily because this let's him digest things on his own and I don't want to make him uncomfortable. I asked him to write down his deepest desires and told him I am willing to do whatever it is he wishes. Wish me luck I'll keep you all posted. As such I hope to become a recurrent member of your community, and I hope you'll all accept me. Though this isn't my fetish I do wish to learn all I can about it. I really really appreciate you all seeing as I haven't had one person be rude yet I am surprised. I don't want to be an outsider and I hope you all wouldn't mind if I shared my progress through this journey of mine.

All hope that it goes well and I start sessions soon as that would make me happy.... Think maybe it is my fetish? Not sure maybe I'll find out.

Thanks again you all are awesome here are a few more questions I have...

How much pain is too much when doing air inflation anally? Can I expect cramping? I'm assuming cramping comes with it as I read the FAQ page Canadian guy has but I just want to know how much is too much.

Also, why is this fetish considered weird in your words? I think it's pretty cool and different. It is refreshing and I am enjoying reading your stories.

Is/was it hard for you to talk to your partner(s) and if so how did you overcome it?

I would consider my relationship to be long-term serious. Almost two years, we live together and he isn't biologically my sons father but in reality he's all my sons known.

Thanks guys and gals!

Keep on biggering!

Sat, 02/06/2016 - 21:24

(Reply to #10) #11

Another Canadian Guy

Alright, well to answer this in top down order...

(ahem)

I do hope the letter goes well. You know him best so I hope it works out the best. I can see the sort of cautious route your taking about the forums, and let me just say that while it's appreciated, we are really open (or I like to assume) and let everyone and anyone join, much like any good forum. Don't feel you have to prove anything to us here, you've already shown that with your openess and willing to seek out knowledge and to make others happy. That can be rare in this day and age. I think the progress would be encouraged for sure, just something worth mentioning is that sometimes new users hope/expect a lot of feedback and you might not get as much as you'd hoped. Just giving a heads up as I was the same way.

You'll find that the more open you are towards something the higher a chance you are to adopt it, even if you originally thought not possible. It could become a fetish for you but it's subject to your willingness, openess, and your partners response and actions towards it.

The cramping is hard to explain. See, it never really gets unbearable but it'll get strong enough and constant enough that you'll know to stop. It's not exactly the pain (which isn't as bad as it may sound) it's that your belly will get tighter then loosen up at points. When it gets tight you just take a few seconds to let the air pass. I've hit a couple of points where your belly just gets super, and I mean super tight that shortly after that the air would then pass into my small intestine and then be burped out (I mean almost impossible to breathe tight). This may not happen for everyone, and as a note when it happened to me I always got super sick as it rushes out to your stomach and gets burped out within seconds.

It's really hard to explain but so long as you aren't trying your absolute hardest you'll know the point to stop. Just inflate, stop and relax when you get crampy, then continue. At one point it's constant cramps so you can't take anymore. If you choose to try it you'll get what I mean.

I'd say that some of us consider it weird because it's somewhat uncommon and 'unnatural'. Now yes, other fetishes are just as 'unnatural' but the more common something is the less weird it becomes. It becomes a sort of defensive thing to non-inflationists so that we don't try to act like its perfectly fine (which it is, again, uncommon fetish) to others who don't get it and think it's very weird. Think like when you self-depreciate yourself, it's basically the same thing.

Never had a partner to share it with. I'm only 22 anyways and I have a lot of things in life I want to take care of first anyways before I start looking. That being said, if it happens then it happens and I'll post then!

Glad to hear. I have a friend who did the same. Remember, family is the ones who raise you, not nessesarily whom birthed you. If a guy can help raise a son he never helped bore well he's got my utmost respect.

(Not on here too often, replies might be slow.)

Sat, 02/06/2016 - 21:39

(Reply to #11) #12

All4him

Thank you so much for your reply.

I think I get what you're saying about the cramping. I gave him the letter and he said he doesn't know what to say but he said it positively so maybe I just shocked him.

I'm hoping this fetish becomes mine. Right now I'm just obsessed with learning everything there is to learn. That may or may not be healthy lol. I want to share my progress so that others in my position that maybe aren't asking these questions can see and hear my experience - that of someone doing this for their partner. As I said I'm excited and cannot wait to try so I hope he wants to start like... Tomorrow but I'm giving him time to process everything I wrote. Thanks again!!

Keep on biggering!

Sun, 02/07/2016 - 05:01

(Reply to #12) #13

AirPump

I wanted to wish you the best of luck. You're definitely in the right place for finding out useful information and friendly advice. My girlfriend just recently agreed to try inflation purely for my interests as well, and it's quickly becoming one of her favorite fetishes as well. So yeah, there's a distinct posibility you'll grow to enjoy it too, no pun intended ;)

By all means, keep us informed of your progres, and don't be afraid to ask whatever questions you may have. Chances are, at least one of us has gone through the same thing, and someone probably has a solution. Again, best of luck!

Fill 'er up!

Sun, 02/07/2016 - 08:49

(Reply to #12) #14

Another Canadian Guy

It's subject to your willingness. Assuming your parter gets to enjoy sharing it with you then I can very well see you adopting this fetish as your own!

On that note I have seen it before in friends with not just inflation, but other fetishes as well. I can see that you do want for this fetish to become yours so I'd say you have a strong chance at getting it.

(Not on here too often, replies might be slow.)

Sun, 02/07/2016 - 05:40

(Reply to #10) #15

doubleintegral

Trying to look at our fetish from the outside in and being completely objective:

1. Ours is not one of the more common, quasi-socially-acceptable fetishes (e.g. piercings, BDSM, BBW, big boobs, big butts, big dicks, to name just a few). There is a huge double standard in play.

2. Objectively speaking, many people's fetishes are borne out of a scene in which an underage girl (Violet Beauregarde) inflates. Many of us still ostensibly derived sexual pleasure out of such scene.

3. Again, objectively speaking, our community is littered with stories that contain depictions of physical assault, sexual assault, rape, and murder. And, again, we derive sexual pleasure out of those things.

Obviously it's not quite that simple, but most people who discover us for the first time don't exactly take the time to understand why we like what we like. Instead, we get targeted for abuse by moderators on sites like deviantArt and get accused of being sexist and disrespectful towards women. There are some people out there that have a deep, irrational hatred for us.

Not to mention, we all like to think that we live in a world where our personal business is our personal business, but I've had 2-3 very conservative bosses who I *know* would have axed me simply for what I look at on my own time.

So, rather than try to fight the power and change society's collective opinion, many of us are content to play by society's rules and whittle away at our stories and art anonymously.

Stories I have written

Sun, 02/07/2016 - 05:44

(Reply to #14) #16

AirPump

Well said. You and I are on the same page here.

Fill 'er up!

Sun, 02/07/2016 - 06:50

(Reply to #14) #17

All4him

Thank you seems you've put quite some thought into it.

I don't see it as disrespectful to women. Maybe that's why I don't have a huge issue with it. It intrigues me this whole fetish. And learning about just fascinates me.

I've always told my boyfriend it isn't weird but he's still just so shy about it. I wish he wouldn't be. And he works in a government job so I could see him getting axed for it as well.

Keep on biggering!

Sun, 02/07/2016 - 06:52

#18

All4him

So it went "okay" I would say. He read my letter where I stated I'd done quite a bit of research and joined this community and that I really wanted to self inflate for him or look into other options if he wanted.

His response was "I don't know what to say" and I just told him to take his time because it took me a long time to bring it up. Later on he said my letter isn't bad at all he is just stunned I would do any of it for him. And he needs to think about what he wants so we can roleplay them. So I'd say... I did alright lol

Keep on biggering!

Sun, 02/07/2016 - 09:31

#19

Lopni

Let me add my two cents

As Integral said in the start - why not just turn it into a role-play? Maria and I do it like that, no IRL inflation involved.

Look at it like this: fetish is an aid in becoming aroused, right? So, you two became aroused, then what? Would you choose to be in a state completely unsuitable for going to bed with your loved one?

My apologies if it's unseemly, just adding a voice from a fantasy branch ^_^

Sun, 02/07/2016 - 13:10

#20

All4him

Idk I think for him to feel my belly inflated is a huge turn on I'm not sure roleplaying would be enough?

Keep on biggering!

Sun, 02/07/2016 - 13:37

(Reply to #20) #21

AirPump

It's a good way to start, and you won't know anything for sure until you try it.

Fill 'er up!

Sun, 02/07/2016 - 14:31

(Reply to #20) #22

firnov

Like "airpump" says. Its a great way to start. My ex did it for me to. Its just the littke things that can be the best. As a example: when she had eaten her diner she just say "im so full, i think im going to explode"(she knows i was really into popping). That little hint just give me a boost i needed.

I also wanted to give you a small tip. Its great you want to inflate, but watch out. The traditional anal-inflation can be a lot of danger to your body. Try to be profesional and dont try to get at your maximum size the first time. I dont want you to end up bad.

Try inhaling. My ex did it. Meby its not the best way to get big, but it is one of the savest. Also this can be a lot of fun

And boom goes the inflatee

Sun, 02/07/2016 - 14:40

#23

All4him

I'm confused on how to inhale and keep it in if anyone has pointers that'd be cool. I've asked him to rub my belly after a huge meal before he's just sooooo shy and avoided it like the plague because he thinks it will upset me... Little does he know I just want to please him lol

Keep on biggering!

Sun, 02/07/2016 - 17:46

#24

ProfessorCompressor

Don't risk Your health in any way.
I don't think He would want you to modify your body.
Your best bet I think is to start with putting a pillow under Your shirt.
say something like “I feel like a balloon”
that should be all thats needed to make him speechless.
painless cheap and fun.

Sun, 02/07/2016 - 18:13

#25

ProfessorCompressor

I also herd about a trick ware You inflate trash bags between 2 pairs of nylons that looks pretty nice.

Sun, 02/07/2016 - 18:36

#26

All4him

I will keep that in mind. I'm hoping he becomes more open and expresses what he would want. I'm not entirely sure he's just so shy about it. I told him I'm completely open to it.

Keep on biggering!

Sun, 02/07/2016 - 20:52

#27

Yourscast

I don't suggest actual inflation, it's dangerous and no your body can not "train" or develop. You will probably get a hernia depending on your body type. The people that have had success may look predominant on here but I've heard plently of horror stories and warnings too. I'm not knocking the users that do it, I'm just saying it's not something to just jump into!

I suggest getting an exercise ball (one that matches your skin tone if possible). Cut up a stretchy shirt into a big rubber band like object or something along those lines; wear the shirt at your waist and place the ball inbetween you and the shirt. Ether blow it up yourself or have him pretend to inflate you. The shirt should hold it in place.

Sun, 02/07/2016 - 21:03

#28

All4him

That's another fantastic idea thank you :)

Keep on biggering!

Mon, 02/08/2016 - 07:07

#29

Another Canadian Guy

It's a good point Yourscast. I'd disagree that it's as common as you think but jumping right into actual body inflation might be a little too fast and you may want to consider inflating a large ball or balloon instead. This will also grant you a much larger size not possible by actual inflation means.

(Not on here too often, replies might be slow.)

Mon, 02/08/2016 - 07:31

#30

Lopni

Okay, and since we're still brainstorming -

you shouldn't miss the totally awesome idea of another lady - invented by the wife of HeliumFloater (sorry don't know her nickname): http://www.bodyinflation.org/node/28747

All it requires is a swimsuit.

Just get invited by (or invite) your loved one to a public swimming pool. This fun is completely innocent and can be done without any declarations or preparations, just casually between the swims

Mon, 02/08/2016 - 07:54

#31

All4him

Omg we have an indoor pool too.... Sweet thank you!!!!!

We had a very intense three hour conversation last night and I think all of the suggestions will work. So maybe I won't get into self inflating right away but he is definitely interested in it. Just the fact that I had learned so much was a huge turn on for him and he is relieved he can tell me what he wants. This has definitely made our relationship stronger and I have all of you to thank for it. He will be joining this community... I want him to. And he needs to see he is not alone.

Thanks again everyone if anyone still has tips please leave them. This is my obsession to find out all I can.

Keep on biggering!

Mon, 02/08/2016 - 09:27

(Reply to #31) #32

firnov

Your welcome. Its great to help people who need if ;)

And boom goes the inflatee

Tue, 02/09/2016 - 10:34

#33

All4him

Had a great first session. Thoroughly enjoyed self inflating. We also will try other more non invasive methods but I personally wanted to try and I definitely get why some people like it. The feeling is so awesome. Now some of you said there's no way to "train" to get bigger and some of you say that if you keep doing sessions you get bigger... What's the real answer???

Keep on biggering!

Tue, 02/09/2016 - 14:30

(Reply to #33) #34

Yourscast

The human body isn't made out of rubber or memory foam. You're inflating delicate organs that were never meant to blow up with air. The only way it could ever "grow", which is unlikely, is if the intestines are stretched out (which is unnatural and could hinder your metabolism). It's flesh not rubber!

Tue, 02/09/2016 - 17:28

(Reply to #34) #35

All4him

Thank you. I also tried your suggestion AMAZINGGGGG

Keep on biggering!

Tue, 02/09/2016 - 17:42

(Reply to #35) #36

Another Canadian Guy

To clear things up, you will train your muscles to retain more over time, but there is a point past that where you can't "grow" anymore. You don't really develop any new muscles you just learn to fully utilize the ones you have.

(Not on here too often, replies might be slow.)

Wed, 02/10/2016 - 07:52

(Reply to #33) #37

AirPump

Congratulations! Glad you had a good time. And nice pic. Is that from your session?

Fill 'er up!

Wed, 02/10/2016 - 09:56

(Reply to #39) #38

All4him

Pic is from an excersize ball. Which is pretty amazing. I'd like to post my self inflation too cause I think it's quite impressive for a first timer but I don't know how to just put it on my profile and not on the site lol

Keep on biggering!

Wed, 02/10/2016 - 19:25

(Reply to #40) #39

AirPump

If it's a privacy issue, just make sure your face is blurred or cropped out. Otherwise, there's not much you can do other than simply not post it.

Now, if you're concerned about criticism, I wouldn't be to worried. Most people here are pretty kind with that sort of thing.

Fill 'er up!

Wed, 02/10/2016 - 19:54

(Reply to #41) #40

All4him

Well I do want feedback. Wanted to post to this thread but don't know how. I want to show progress for those lurkers who may be in my shoes. What they can expect etc.

Keep on biggering!

Thu, 02/11/2016 - 19:58

(Reply to #42) #41

AirPump

I'm sure someone on here knows exactly what you're looking to do. I'd actually like to know if it's possible too.

Fill 'er up!

Wed, 02/10/2016 - 19:54

(Reply to #41) #42

All4him

Well I do want feedback. Wanted to post to this thread but don't know how. I want to show progress for those lurkers who may be in my shoes. What they can expect etc.

Keep on biggering!

Tue, 02/09/2016 - 22:38

#43

redguyrivas

If you want another idea to get your man excited here's something me and my longtime girlfriend do. I found out I could inflate her a bit by blow kissing her, kind of like in some cartoons. Now I know it sounds really illogical but it works, all you got to do is let you boyfriend blow air into your mouth and you swallow it, it really works and to me is a great turn on especially when my girl is on top and I can feel the pressure of her tummy growing as I blow into her. Just make sure you don't take to much in at one time, sometimes when I blow into my girl too much she starts feeling light headed, I think its mainly from breathing in CO2, take it a little slow and one blow at a time so you can breath and prepare yourself for the next blow.

Wed, 02/10/2016 - 06:14

#44

All4him

Sounds good :) thank you

Keep on biggering!

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