Curious: has anyone ever intentionally and successfully developed an inflation fetish?

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Sat, 08/06/2016 - 18:14

Carnation

Hi,

I don't have an inflation fetish myself, but my huband does. I'm interested in learning more about the fetish and whether it's something I could develop. (Note: I don't necessarily want to inflate myself; he's more interested in cartoon inflation than what can be achieved with real bodies anyhow. It's more that I want to be able to watch things or read things and share with him sexually.)

I've had some negative experiences related to other people's sexual fetishes when I was a child, and that left a mark on me so I'm a little scared and nervous--not intellectually, just involuntarily, as an old trauma reaction. But I want to be able to share sexuality fully with my husband, and to feel like we can speak the same sexual language.

Has anyone had any experiences with this or does anyone have any suggestions for gently developing a body inflation fetish? I'm also interested in any videos you can point me to where the character is happy being inflated and doesn't pop.

Thanks! ^_^

Sat, 08/06/2016 - 18:55

violetGambit

I'm not sure if there is an actual science on this, but the best tip I could give you to getting a fetish for it is repeated exposure. And while viewing it, just try to get off even if you aren't feeling it. Eventually, with any luck, getting aroused by inflation will be reflex. Much like how people that watch too much porn lose the ability to get aroused by normal situations.

Sat, 08/06/2016 - 18:54

violetGambit

Forgive the double post

Sat, 08/06/2016 - 19:21

Sakeen

As violet said repeated exposure and "getting off" while watching a video, reading a story or looking at pictures may eventually help you become aroused to the fetish. I know there are a few things I was never into when I first started looking at inflation/expansion content but after continuously coming across whatever it was at the time I eventually found it arousing as well. Lactation,blueberry expansion, weight gain and pregnancy stuff comes to mind at the moment.

Trying to understand what makes inflation might help and trying to incorporate it into any fetishes you may already have might be a good starting point.

After awhile I'm sure you'll be able to enjoy the content as much if not more then the rest of us.

If you have any more questions feel free to ask we're here to help!

Sat, 08/06/2016 - 21:22

Succoria

It's great to see you want to join the fetish with your husband! I would say your best bet is to take it slow. What I would recommend would be to drop little references to it in the day to day (like saying your feeling bloated, for example). It's best to ask your husband about specific triggers, which'll help you get you two in sync with regards to the kink.

Also, you'd need to pay for it, but if you go to Taylormadeclips, and look for "Dita Loves Balloons", (Search is your friend), you'll find a video that suits your request.

Sun, 08/07/2016 - 00:01

MixMaster (not verified)

Well, first off, you sound like a magnificent woman for even posting this thread and going the extra mile for your relationship. I would hope your husband would be eternally grateful for the effort.

Secondly, while I'm not for certain it would be something you would neccesarily "develop", seeing as how fetishes usually manifest during pubescent times in a person's life and generally, develop less so with women, it may be something that you can learn to appreciate if you were so inclined. Honestly, someone I would suggest PMing if they don't respond to this thread is AirTankGirl, she was in a similar position of being introduced to this fetish by a significant other.

My suggstions would be to be read some of the stories posted on this site and places like deviantart. I prefer people's work like Inflate123, Airtankgirl, and BlueberryJanelle just to name a few, but observe the language being used, the "trigger" words. Words referencing size, (Big, huge, gigantic, enormous, etc) sensations, (tight, taut, round, light, heavy, pressure) and sounds (creaks, hisses, groans, squeaks) are all things that may pique his interests. I would suggest Taylormadeclips as well, but as I mentioned in another thread, I don't feel like their writing or actresses portrayals of the material are too incredibly stellar, but seeing as how they often repeat the same lines littered with trigger words, it may be give you some ideas of what he finds attractive? If you were to buy one, I'd recommend Maxgrowth's videos. They're more on the PG-13 side and more narrative driven, but are generally better produced and written. Anything featuring Koa (or at least from what I've watched) is gold.

If you were trying to get into things on a more sensual level for yourself, you could always do what some people of this community do, and try some clothes stuffing. It's a small investment for everything you would need (a garment, usually something like a t-shirt, sweatpants, or one-piece swimsuit/leotard if you were wanting to get fancy, some pillows or some balloons/beachballs/yoga ball, and an air pump/compressor if you go with the latter) and would give yourself the opportunity to see yourself as he most likely fantasizes about you looking. I personally go for inflatables, simply because it shows there is some sort of progression taking place if you were to inflate it under your garment, rather than stuffing pillows in it, kind of ruins the illusion in my humble opinion.

On a side note, mentioning "as he most likely fantasizes about you looking", I wouldn't get too self-consciense of this aspect. I've had women in my past that I have explained my fetish to say that this aspect of this fetish is shallow, or portrays women in an unrealistic fashion (You don't say?), because I'm not satisfied with their physical looks, even though no woman, let alone human, in the world is physically capable of meeting these measurements, period, which sounds similar to your husband's tastes. What they failed to realize or I failed to adequately convey is that aspect of the fetish is completely irrelavent and why I feel, as I'm sure a few other people wether they are conscience of it or not, is a big part of the attraction: the ability to go from your normal self, to round and bloated, and back again to your normal self. In short, what does your normal physical form matter if he's fantasizing about you being a blimp anyway? :p

I hope what I've had to say has been informative or at the very least, helpful. If you have any more questions, feel free to ask and happy trails ^_^

Sun, 08/07/2016 - 02:10

Margeret Moonlught

Probably not, idk. I'm of the opinion that it's near impossible to develop a fetish, The only kind of development I can think of is realizing that you have a kinky as fuck fetish when you're going through puberty.

But if your husband has this fetish, Maybe sit down and talk with him about. See if you can find a middle ground that is in both of your comfort zones and potentially find a way to work it into your bedroom escapades. That seems like the best option to me.
Also, To address the 'negative experiences related to other people's sexual fetishes' thing.
First, You poor, poor cupcake..
Second, Maybe look at it this way: Your husband's fetish is a part of him, Not much he can do about that (take it from me, its like a goddamn Tick bitten by the incredible hulk. nigh impossible to get rid of.), Accepting that fact- If you haven't already, Is a major step.

Sorry if this sounds a bit pretentious, Tired-writing this. Which is never a good sign, Honestly. :P

BI.org’s very own metamorphic incomprehensible memetic fractal entity

Sun, 08/07/2016 - 03:07

firnov

Great you open up to him that well. Its good to hear about true love.

First i need to say, are you ready and willing to do this? If its to hard for your personal feelings i think it aint fun for you. Its really nice that you want to try it. But fueling up your trauma's can hurt your relation. (I just say it as a friend, so if you want to its your live ;) )

My ex-girlfiend was just like you, unknown to this fetish. But i have to say, she picked it up really well. She known i was really in the trill for inflation and specially popping.

She started with trigger words, a bit like "mixmaster" tolled you. Like after a big dinner she said "im so full, i think im gona explode", that little thing can be a big and special thing for a person with this fetish.

Also she inhaled her belly with air some times. Sometimes she let me play with it (lucky times)

I hope i awnsed your question well. You can always send me a private messige if you like to know more. Feel free to ask

And boom goes the inflatee

Sun, 08/07/2016 - 04:47

Carnation

Thank you all for your suggestions, thoughts, and insights--I really appreciate it. I'll be looking into the writing, videos, and images you mention as I explore. It's really helpful to have your ideas and reflections and your kindness. Thank you! ^_^

Sun, 08/07/2016 - 08:31

#10

AirPump

Though it is nigh impossible to force-develop a fetish, as you seem to be suggesting, I've found it is very possible for couples to enjoy either person's fetish thoroughly. As has been mentioned, you need to find a middle ground which you are both comfortable with, establish this place, then spread out from there as you both feel necessary. The key to all this is, surprise, communication. Talk to your significant other, not just about his fetish, but your concerns about it. Share your own likes and dislikes with him, and listen to what he enjoys as well. You'd be surprised how much easier it is to come to an agreement if you simply talk about it.

As for videos of the type you're looking for, I'd suggest searching on YouTube. Because of their strickter regulations, YouTube doesn't allow nudity or gorey subject matter, so you're not very likely to find popping there. Some of it is pretty cheesey though, so tread carefully. Best of luck.

Fill 'er up!

Sun, 08/07/2016 - 10:45

#11

airtankgirl5

Hi, This will take a while, so get a drink and get comfortable.

I was brought into this silly fetish by my (ex)husband. He had it, I sort of figuered it out, I tried it, and it meshed really well with my other kinks and whammo! Here I am, for better or worse. I even wrote fetish erotica for this batch of perverts :) So, a few things to help you in the right direction:

1. Understand the difference between a kink and a fetish. A kink is something one likes, a fetish is something one needs. It is inextricably linked to his sex drive, the most powerful motivator we have. It's no one's fault, and you're clearly pretty damn awesome for exploring it.

2.The odds are that you will not "develop" the fetish. However that doesn't mean that all is lost. The easy out is trades, he helps you with your link, you help with his. Maybe there is some mesh. Fore example, I had a boyfriend once that had this "wanted to be a fireman/damsel in distress thing". Ok, I can make that work...because firemen also have these big airtanks...well, trust me, it worked out.

3. So, even if you don't develop the fetish, it can be VERY arousing and satisfying on your end to be able to arouse him so thoroughly and, usually pretty easily :). Remember Oscar Wilde's "Everything is about sex, except sex, which is about power." If you learn how the fetish relates to him, you will become more powerful than you could possibly imagine.

4. To that end, you need information. You need to know what he likes. Specifically. Fetishes lean toward the specific. Does he want to be inflated, or des he want you to be inflated (or both). What is filling the players (or victims): air, water, food, blueberry? Any favorite pieces of artwork, does he like certain stories? Find them, study them, use them. Almost all fetishists have "triggers" like Mixmaster mentioned. I cannot hear the words "bloated", "bulging", or "inflating" without totally losing my train of thought (and I'm in Finance, you know how many times I hear "inflation" in my day :). Or apparently it's a thing now to refer to calling someone a lot on the phone, "To blow them up"...geez how am I supposed to get any work done). My point being, find out what his triggers are, you can probably do A LOT for him without really putting yourself to a whole lot of effort such as stuffing balloons in your clothes or anything. If you don't want to physically inflate yourself, no problem, I don't either, I'm too chicken.

Inflation seduction is pretty much the easiest thing in the world ;). It's also got this naughty sort of cool that outsiders don't recognize. Like a secret love language. When I'm with a partner that knows about my fetish and we walk past a balloon vendor at an amusement park, when that HISS goes off, we both know what I'm thinking about now :).

There's a thread in here about our "origin" stories, how we got into this. Mine's in there, as a person that didn't start out with an inflation fetish, which may or may not help you. If there is anything else I can do to help you, message me, I'll speak very candidly with you about the fetish. And if your husband just happens to be a fan of my writing, think how much more awesome we can make this ;)

Toodles and good luck

Sun, 08/07/2016 - 12:55

(Reply to #11) #12

AirPump

I belive you did a very good job of detailing what I arguably failed to summarize. This is by all accounts the best advice I've seen on here to date. Excellent work Miss Airtank.

Fill 'er up!

Sun, 08/07/2016 - 20:57

#13

BttrfliesNHurricanes (not verified)

My girlfriend has seemed to gain a sort of inflation fetish herself bless her heart. Going in she already had a strong creampie/cum fetish so through my guidance she turned her already strong for love into a legit cum inflation fetish of sorts. This is a very situational circumstance of course but one that worked. I would say taking a kink or sexual liking that you enjoy and trying to "cross the streams" with inflation could be a way to do it. Of course it's not easy and I am not speaking from direct experience but it wouldn't hurt to try (:

Tue, 08/09/2016 - 02:24

#14

Lopni

"Gently developing" - you describe it in a beautiful way!

Other newcomers sometimes describe fetish as if it's a nice ladybag they can purchase and own ^_^ Thing is, ladybags change, sometimes even our pets have a say when to change a ladybag ^_^ Marriage is a spiritual dance of two souls, intertwining, exchanging influencing each other - and sex is not exception, it's just another side of this dance. You are totally right to descirbe it "gently developing", and do message ATG if you still haven't - just as she's said, caring for your family and being yourself is the key ^_^

If it might help, here's one family story - a fairly typical one

When we first met as lovers, Maria was much more experienced but more closed, I was comfortable discussing my fantasies while she opened hers after two years together - and it appeared they changed to include mine. I was into popping, and she started to like popping. It's a rather funny fantasy some of us have - bursting like a party balloon or a soap bubble, into nothingness. Kaboom! - and you are confetti and glitter ^_^

Then we roleplayed it, I really imagined popping her into nothingness, and a thought of losing her was such a turn-off that I instantly became a "no-popping" guy. For a few years we were a family of two inflation fetishists with incompatible interests, which is just as fine and happens all the time ^_^

Then she inflated with three litres of isotonic water as a part of her pregnancy and created a charming girl. I saw first-hand how beautiful and natural popping is IRL and figured it can't be horrible in a fantasy either. We roleplayed her popping, and it was all right. Became a "popping" guy again

As for Maria, her gorgeous boobs will keep inflating with milk for some time. Boob deflation feels erotic to her - like a long, weak orgasm spread over entire feeding time - and certainly it affects her fantasies. Currently she changes interest from popping to getting saved in the last moment and juiced or otherwise deflated. Maybe she won't like popping anymore in a few more years, i don't know ^_^

The only constant in this permanent change is that we actively care for each other, the rest just happens ^_^

Tue, 08/09/2016 - 09:23

#15

pballooned

Regarding videos where the character is happy being inflated and doesn't pop. Not in all the following videos the character is happy, but in all of them the expansion is beneficial to them. Might give some inspiration:

https://youtu.be/5gFbXPrAiSQ
In this case inflation makes the character a heroine. She inflates with water and then extiguishes the fire in a burning building(it's an elephant lady).

https://youtu.be/jHNrQSmqwVQ
Two flattened characters. Flat as paper. In this case inflation takes them out of a "depression" state.

https://youtu.be/kIWYyY69c4g
Mighty Mouse inflates to become bigger and being able to deal with a giant cat.

https://youtu.be/PUEb4duxv_U
Donald Duck takes a huge breath in, allowing him to fill the inner tube in just one blow.

https://youtu.be/SqyvRhDQ3qY
Girl just amuses herself chewing her gum.

https://youtu.be/HOAi9TtQk7c
Two girls have fun showing the advantages of having "big breasts".

Tue, 08/09/2016 - 11:38

(Reply to #15) #16

Lopni

oh wow! There's A LOT ^_^

Okay, step two. How would we change the Violet scene from Charlie's Chocolate Factory using these videos?

1. Violet chews a gum, swells with blueberry juice and then a fire starts, smoke makes Violet sneeze and she extinguishes the fire with blueberry juice

2. Violet gets juiced a bit too much and becomes flat. Another blueberry gum returns her to normal but blue

3. Violet swells bigger to be able to deal with a giant oompa-loompa (we didn't see him in the movie because he was hiding from cameras)

4. Violet swallows a blueberry gum, allowing her to fill the cups of all guests by breathing out into them

5. Violet amuzes herself by blowing a bubble from a blueberry bubblegum. She shrinks smaller when a bubble grows, and she returns to normal by popping it

6. Violet becomes big. She is towed home, and there she learns new ways of doing things. And it so happens that being big helps in a lot of tasks

Excellent videos!!! Many thanks, Mestre PBallooned! ^_^

Tue, 08/09/2016 - 12:01

(Reply to #16) #17

pballooned

Very creative reply. Indeed you used your imagination here :-)

Tue, 08/09/2016 - 14:59

#18

protonstar

I'm also interested in any videos you can point me to where the character is happy being inflated and doesn't pop.

http://gfycat.com/CoordinatedUnderstatedAzurevasesponge

http://gfycat.com/UnselfishGreatBluetickcoonhound

Tue, 08/09/2016 - 22:59

#19

Lopni

just to be sure - the most recent few comments are continuation of this discussion

Apologies!

@Protonstar - wow, there's more! I won't dare to open those at work, maybe you can turn them into ideas for a movie?

Sat, 08/13/2016 - 11:09

#20

CumBalloon

I had never heard of inflation as a kink before I met my husband. He had been afraid to tell me about it, but by the time he told me I loved him too much to be scared off. Too late, I'm stuck with him, haha. :)

Some good discussion here. I also wouldn't think one can develop a kink or fetish intentionally. It's definitely possible to try indulging a sexual partner's kink or fetish in a way you're comfortable with, and if you start to enjoy it more than you thought you would, that's a welcome bonus.

I'm okay with my husband being into inflation and we've written some short erotic stories for each other of ourselves having inflation-related fun. I tried a bit of belly inflation for him once by swallowing some Mentos with diet soda. Wouldn't mind doing that again except I will never again try swallowing two Mentos at a time! That did not work well because I almost spit soda all over the carpet, lol.

Although I'm not completely into inflation as a whole, I enjoy certain aspects of it. My husband's general preference for larger women has been good for me as a fat woman...and he'll probably be even more attracted to me if I get pregnant at some point, which is nice...even if my reason for being "inflated" at that point would likely cause me to be grumpy at times, and the "reason for inflation" could kick my husband as he rubbed my engorged belly.

I'm a little into the idea of cum inflation (hence the username) but that's more because I discovered I have a cum kink...so it's not the idea of being inflated that turns me on, it's the idea of a large amount of cum being pumped into me.

...I'm certainly not new to the Internet, but I'm relatively new to being accepting of my sexuality and being open about it even in the relative anonymity of the Internet. It's slightly weird seeing I just typed about my love of cum. Not in a bad way. I'm just not used to it yet. Hi Internet! I like cum! Eh it's not like the Internet hasn't seen much, much weirder. XD

Curious: has anyone ever intentionally and successfully developed an inflation fetish?

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