Have you ever told someone about your fetish and then received criticism for your interests? I haven't experienced this since the only few who know about my fetish are you guys, but I'm eager to hear from you. I've been planning of admitting my inflation fetish or at least my fat fetish to my friends, and I want to see if they'll act like dipshits or accepting.
Has anyone ever criticized you for your fetish?
Tue, 08/23/2016 - 22:03
#1
CobaltSnake
Has anyone ever criticized you for your fetish?
Wed, 08/24/2016 - 00:04
#3
Margeret Moonlught
Nope.
Mainly because most folk don't know about this fetish, But still.
Wed, 08/24/2016 - 17:28
#4
CobaltSnake
It seemed like your post was meant to transition into your signature
"But still, IT'S HIP TO FUCK BEES"
Wed, 08/24/2016 - 23:26
#5
Margeret Moonlught
Not intentional, But I'm still going to say that it was all planned.
But really tho, It's hip to fuck bees-
Wed, 08/24/2016 - 01:39
#6
Both people I've had a sexual relationship with found it creepy and disturbing. I've never had a negative reaction from anyone else.
Wed, 08/24/2016 - 08:58
#7
Another Canadian Guy
Why tell others about your fetish if they don't ask? Personally, as much as I'm sure you want to, you're kind of forcing a topic they probably don't want to talk about and might make them uncomfortable.
Wed, 08/24/2016 - 09:13
#8
Mirthful Sandwich
I had an experience a while ago where myself and four other online friends felt that we'd grown close enough to reveal to eachother our fetishes. I told them mine, and since at this point we all knew eachother's, there really wasn't any kinkshaming to be had. One friend brought it up in a joking way later on down the line, but other than that, I haven't really had any negative experiences and don't intend on having them.
Wed, 08/24/2016 - 10:30
#9
Yes, but she popped
Wed, 08/24/2016 - 12:15
#10
firnov
Hahahahaha. Big like for you sir
Wed, 08/24/2016 - 14:05
#11
Nope. I've told every girlfriend I've ever had, and a few close female friends, and the typical response is along the lines of "haha, that's weird, but cool". And my girlfriends have been willing to play along with me.
I'm not trying to brag, I'm just saying that this isn't some freakish thing, it's just a kink; most people have them. Like I always say: at least we don't like to pee on people.
That being said I usually save it for people I'm romantically involved with. My friends don't need to know; I don't want to know their kinks either.
Wed, 08/24/2016 - 15:32
#12
airtankgirl5
Like caff, I have had mostly positive responses from sharing my fetish, but:
1. I only do so with intimate partners.
2. It's probably easier for women..."Honey would you mind if I made my boobs bigger with balloons under my shirt?" really seems to sell well.
3. I cannot fathom a reason to share this with mere friends, that just seems...stupid. Good neighbors make good fences. But that's just like, my opinion man.
Wed, 08/31/2016 - 13:56
#13
Fleetingsanity
Referencing number three, exactly. My buddies know I'm into big tits and that's about all they need to know. None of your friends need to know what your kinks are there's ultimately no purpose. You're not there to fuck (well most of the time) your friends you're there to hang out with, drink beer, and talk about stupid shit.
Wed, 08/31/2016 - 15:32
#14
hentai enthusiast
no, because i have no friends to tell.
Wed, 08/31/2016 - 15:33
#15
hentai enthusiast
Thu, 09/01/2016 - 00:42
#16
Margeret Moonlught
good post.
Sat, 09/03/2016 - 11:05
#17
Ratbiker
i did once... thats when i learned that some secrets should remain kept to ones self.
Sun, 09/04/2016 - 00:38
#18
I've shared it with a few trusted partners and for the most part I've been met with fascination and acceptance. It seems like almost everyone has their own weird kink that causes them a bit of confusion or shame. We just happen to be on the rarer side.
I wouldn't be comfortable telling my regular friends. I don't see why they need to know, and bringing it up would be unnecessary and awkward for everyone involved.
Sun, 09/04/2016 - 00:38
#19
I've shared it with a few trusted partners and for the most part I've been met with fascination and acceptance. It seems like almost everyone has their own weird kink that causes them a bit of confusion or shame. We just happen to be on the rarer side.
I wouldn't be comfortable telling my regular friends. I don't see why they need to know, and bringing it up would be unnecessary and awkward for everyone involved.
Sun, 09/04/2016 - 20:42
#20
Blue_Eyes
No.
Mon, 09/05/2016 - 01:13
#21
Margeret Moonlught
Good post.
Wed, 09/07/2016 - 11:39
#22
Only time i ever told anyone was this girl way back in school and she never really talked to me after that sooooo yeah ^~^;
Wed, 09/07/2016 - 14:17
#23
Mostly other fetishists. "You're doing my fetish wrong!!!" Angry wankers.
A couple of friends know because of sloppy internet history management but they've been curious more than derisive. I think in one case, particularly, he's assessing his own kinks in the light of other people's.
There was a time where someone I was engaged in vigorous online argument with seemed to know more about me than they could know from our dialogue and seemed to be making hints about outing me. I told them to get on with it and expose themselves as the stalking, blackmailing asshole they are and they disappeared from the internet in a puff of electrons.
Wed, 09/07/2016 - 21:19
#24
SirFrancisThe3rd
I told a friend of mine that I have known for 8 years. He said he knows because he was snooping on my computer when I was at work and found my stash. He then told me he was a furry and thought this fetish was weirder than the furry one. And now he is constantly making jokes about telling someone I want to go out with about my secret, or making "inflating" gestures which is reeeeaaally uncomfortable. So in other words, not much good comes from telling others. No girl I've ever been with ever knew about this.
Admittedly, I have revealed my zest for inflation to a couple of my closest friends who inquired upon my interests. Regrettably, I met with disappointing results. Primarily, they were unable to comprehend the fascination and elation experienced from a man expanding into a vulnerable, poppable balloon. I imagine in some manner it disgusted them, and has caused me to feel foolish. They don't look at me in the same friendly manner they once did, either, and haven't spoken to me in weeks.