Why am I Developing a New Kink?

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Transformersgirl
Why am I Developing a New Kink?

I know this might be the wrong web-site. I'm in my early thrities and I'm starting to get aroused from seeing fictional characters get flattened. I had no interest in it until recently. I developed a kink for body expansion in my early twenties. 

It's hot to combine the two like seeing a character get flattened and then they get inflated, but I hate the reversed though. Oh, seeing a character gain a lot of weight (though being inflated couldn't work because he's not heavy enough) and then he flattens the one who fattens him up for revenge. 

I would watch Ridiculouscake videos and they actually scared me, but then I started to imagine to stuff happening to male characters instead of female and it feels empowering. I'm not trying to make a feminist statement or wanting to hurt men by the way. Ridiculouscak does other fetish stuff. I don't why like a don't have any other kinks, but seeing fetish art, it's like a getting a message to get arouse over it. Well, in my subconscious.

I'm really attracted to Transformers and might pay for a comission by Prisonsuitrabbitman, if he'll do it. I would find it sexy for Starscream(G1) to get flattened and he enjoys it. WTF, is wrong with me? :( I need some therapy. 

doubleintegral
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It's perfectly normal to discover new kinks (or let old kinks fall away) over time, and flattening is pretty harmless as far as kinks go.  I'm not going to tell you to not seek therapy for it, but I don't think it's necessarily cause for alarm either.

Transformersgirl

Thank-you, but I'm not losing my other kink. I like to imagine the charaters going back to normal whether they expand or get flatten.

doubleintegral
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Right, I understand that.  It's just normal for people's tastes to change over time.  Give yourself some time to see how you feel about it before you get too worried about yourself.

Transformersgirl

I will. ^^

Fleetingsanity
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Inflation/expansion is a gateway fetish lol. You'll start off liking one thing but as time goes on with how adjacent expansion/inflation is a ton of other stuff you'll find yourself getting into some stuff and getting turned off by other stuff.

 

Example: when I was a young warthog (WHEN HE WAS A YOUNG WART HOG!!!!) I told myself I was into breast expansion only. But do to the fact that a ton of breast expansion stories also overlap with belly expansion I was also getting a lot of that. And at first I was like no I don't like that. It's weird to like belly expansion. Breast expansion makes sense but belly? That's for weirdos I'm not a weirdo. Yet I kept reading belly stuff lol. Eventually I was just like you know what I do like belly expansion! 

And it's gone from there I've found a lot more fun things I'm into. The important part of this kinda stuff is to remember is it's a fetish. If your fetish is your whole identity and life you might have a problem. But if it's just a bit of healthy fun escapism that you delve into now and again then you're fine.

 

Also just because I write a lot and ideas are always popping into my head. Since you like the idea of a woman flattening a man and you mentioned starscream. What about a gender bent fembot Metroplex or Unicron (or you know your own giant fembot transformer OC if you were inclined to come up with one) flattening Starscream much to his delight. Just giving you ideas haha. 

Anyway like I mentioned above kinks and fetishes are just meant to be fun little pockets of escapism. You're not a bad person for liking weird stuff we're all different. As long as it's not hurting anyone let your freak flag fly baby!

Falcon Pawnch!

Transformersgirl

That's a great way to put it. I didn't know one thing would follow after another. what I have is more of a kink. A fetish is when you can't be turned on by anything else. You're right they're fictional characters, so no one is getting hurt. I imagine Starscream getting flatttened by a steamroller but a gaint fembot works too. 

Fleetingsanity
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Honestly most people who say they have fetish actually mean kink. No one is actually using the term fetish in its most literal sense. They've kinda become interchangeable in this day and age. Mostly due to over use of the term kinda thing. Similar to how everyone loves to throw out the term triggered these days.

Falcon Pawnch!

Transformersgirl

I guess you're right.