Do you find yourselves not going to bars as much, spending money on liquor to pick up 'skinny chicks' ;-)
Do we here save money?
Sat, 06/07/2008 - 22:53
#1
Do we here save money?
Sun, 06/08/2008 - 21:07
#3
I understand the point you're making, and it's interesting because some of us are glass half empty people and others are glass half full. When i realised the very pleasurable feelings i got from this were sexual, i was disgusted with myself and thought it meant i was never going to lose my virginity because i would never be able to be turned on by anything else and there was no way a girl would ever be into it. I was wrong, but it made a big dent in my life as a teenager and i made myself very unhappy with that attitude. It's good to hear you say that because it's a more positive view.
Mon, 06/09/2008 - 18:10
#4
darth_clone19
nineteenthly....how do you get that out of what he said?
I never felt disgusted with myself. Ive enjoyed every minute of my quirk. This is the only fetish I have, but its not like having a fetish prevents you from being turned on by normal sexual things, like the plain sight of a woman naked. Did you feel you could not be turned on by looking at a woman unless you pictured her inflating?
Mon, 06/09/2008 - 18:52
#5
bostoncowboy
yea im not following it. i agree with darth clone.
Mon, 06/09/2008 - 21:52
#6
I didn't make the connection clear. When i found out how i felt, i was seriously freaked out and pessimistic, because i am pessimistic. I am sexually attracted to women, but at the time i had a whole load of different fetishes and it was like a huge forest of them with women just being one, if you see what i mean. After a while, they narrowed down to just one or two, and it was easier to see the individual "trees". So at the time it was pretty scary for me to find i was turned on by it. You have to remember i was only about twelve then, and there was nothing to indicate that anyone else in the world was into it. No internet of course, and i hadn't even seen Willy Wonka by then. I felt totally isolated and i am, even now, naturally quite introverted and pessimistic, so i would conclude the worst.
How did i get that out of it? Well, saying that it's actually e a s i e r to pick up women because of it is totally the opposite to the way i thought when i was a teenager because i thought it would make it impossible, and as far as i'm concerned, kudos to anyone who has this fetish (which BloatMachine may or may not, who knows?) and sees it as positive, because it would give his confidence a huge boost, and who needs a lack of confidence in that area?
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