so my bf and i are doing things w inflation but i'm not that good at role play so if anyone has any suggestions that can help me w this it would great. he wants me to be like scared or whatever because i'm blowing up and that i want help or what not... please help i'd be forever in your debt thanks email me any suggestions at aschaefer21@yahoo.com thanks
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lilmama
How bout you ask your boyfriend....I'm almost positive he would be able to give you a very detailed explanation for any question you may have.
Although I do have two suggestions, and this is not meant to be rude, but truly helpful: A.) If you don't know this stuff then it might just make it worse trying something that isn't natural to you, I think you should explore this more before "role playing" and B.) Improve your typing if it is online. Bad grammar and/or typing can ruin the moment.
I have read many stories that could have been much better due to grammar or role plays with too any acronyms, slang, or fragmented sentences. Again trying to be helpful, not rude. Having a bad first time could lead to you not wanting to try it again.
sigh, men...always making things so complicated.
Girl to girl suggestion: Read the stories he likes. Model your play on that. There's a reason he likes them.
Let me know how it works out.
thanks both of you we have been trying stuff over the phone he just wants me to expand my vocabulary haha i kinda get shy about stuff but i'm trying to broaden my horizons yeh he has me read some stories to him if i use the right expressions and sounds he loves it... thanks... anything else please let me know
sigh, men...always making things so complicated.
Hah! You should do stand-up.
Edit for political correctness.
Read the stories he likes. Model your play on that. There's a reason he likes them.
Seconded. I gave this exact advice to a prominent video creator in the community over a year ago -- ie, why not just seek permission to shoot some of the stories that are already so popular? Never understood why it was not followed, but there you have it.
The same point applies here: You do not need to reinvent the entire genre. Seek out what he already likes and take your cues from that, or act out an existing story and see what from that story works. Also, find out what specific words he wants you to add to the vocabulary -- the fact that he asked means he does have certain "triggers" in mind. I think many of us here have certain words, concepts, or mental images that are more effective than others, so if he is secretly hoping you'll say words A and B, well, why make it a secret? More info is better here.
Also, no pun intended, but don't put too much pressure on yourself over this. If you worry about "doing it wrong," you're doing it wrong. :) Give it time -- you may one day say something that totally works unexpectedly, and another day, say something you think will be really effective that doesn't go over. Just make note of what works and what doesn't, but don't try to force the process. Make sure that you both understand that new ground is being explored here, and give yourselves the proper time, as well as permission to try things that might not work out in the long run. It took a few years before my wife and I hit a rhythm and worked out a few kinks in my kinks, and it included several "well, okay, maybe not that next time" moments along the way.
thank you this has helped a great deal... haha might i add you should check out this myspace page dedicated to inflation and pregnancy there are a few pictures of me on it.
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=345006880
my boyfriend created it and i just find it kind of hot. its quite amazing that there are so many people out there
thank you this has helped a great deal... haha might i add you should check out this myspace page dedicated to inflation and pregnancy there are a few pictures of me on it.http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=345006880
my boyfriend created it and i just find it kind of hot. its quite amazing that there are so many people out there
hmm... interesting. Good to see someone prepared to be 'out there'
so does anyone have any good stories of their own that they'd like to share? i'd love to hear them... :wink:
email me or im me on aim iheartlost21 aschaefer21@att.net
just act like you don't want to be blown up. Try to act "helpless" while he "inflates" you. Talk about ur clothes getting tighter and how big you're growing. that will turn any guy on.