Hi guys I have a cute Filipino girlfriend, do you know when it is a good time to talk about inflation? So far I dont think I should tell her,
Can you help?
Inflating clothes
I got myself a girlfriend.
Tue, 11/16/2010 - 20:51
#1
inflatingclothes
I got myself a girlfriend.
Wed, 11/17/2010 - 03:04
#3
bloatingtillexp...
inflatingclothes wrote:
Hi guys I have a cute Filipino girlfriend, do you know when it is a good time to talk about inflation? So far I dont think I should tell her,
Can you help?Inflating clothes
I would be hesitant to mention this fetish to her. It is by no means a regular fetish. You should tread carefully and maybe give her subtle clues in very small doses.
Maybe just show her a body inflation clip on YouTube and ask her what she thinks about it without exposing yourself as a lover of the fetish. I do this all the time to get reads off of people.
Hope that helps.
Wed, 11/17/2010 - 13:13
#4
Is Filipino culture naturally open and accepting or more conservative? More to the point, is her upbringing open and accepting or more conservative and cautious?
Wed, 11/17/2010 - 17:05
#5
inflatingclothes
well she has a strong Christan background, so I think it might be hard,
Wed, 11/17/2010 - 17:29
#6
inflatingclothes wrote:
well she has a strong Christan background, so I think it might be hard,
LOL have fun
Wed, 11/17/2010 - 18:03
#7
Boombaby wrote:
inflatingclothes wrote:
well she has a strong Christan background, so I think it might be hard,LOL have fun
According to such a logic I shouldn't like inflation, yet I don't think God or whatever cares about that too much.
Wed, 11/17/2010 - 20:16
#8
i know i am a strong rooted Christian, and i know i dont think God particularly likes that i have this fetish, but my God is a forgiving God....
Wed, 11/17/2010 - 21:27
#9
Yes, I'll have plenty of time to repent...But let's stop talking about religion, someone might not like it.
Wed, 11/17/2010 - 21:38
#10
they can go shove a hose up their butt if they dont like it =P
Wed, 11/17/2010 - 22:00
#11
inflatingclothes
ok, well didnt want it to go off topic, i think that i might have to quite the fetish.
Thu, 11/18/2010 - 14:59
#12
I wanted to tell my boyfriend when we're out of subjects or when it gets boring, but I told earlier (still after a year or so!) because there were too much inflation/balloon related situations and I didn't want to hide it anymore.
Just tell it when it feels like the right time.
Thu, 11/18/2010 - 17:11
#13
bloatingtillexp...
inflatingclothes wrote:
ok, well didnt want it to go off topic, i think that i might have to quite the fetish.
Not sure how you quit a fetish. Most of us like certain things because of how are brains work. I tried a long time ago in when I first started to stop it but in reality, it's apart of me till the day I die most likely.
Thu, 11/18/2010 - 18:12
#14
We were born with this kind of mind, we will die with that.
Anyway it would be interesting to have a survey about what religion we belong to, if we do.
Sun, 11/21/2010 - 00:10
#15
Get to know her a little better first. And by that, I mean keep dating her for awhile and, yes, tread lightly!
Sun, 11/21/2010 - 23:32
#16
Heart-chan
I keep it secret, it's not that hard so long as you cover your tracks
Mon, 11/22/2010 - 00:24
#17
oscar4111
I got really lucky with my girlfriend. I was really worried about telling her but when I finally did she was totally cool with it. She even will rp with me and write me stories. I guess my point is that, in the long run you want to find a relationship with someone who will not only accept you for who you are, but will also embrace it.
If not then maybe it's just not the right person for you.
Tue, 11/23/2010 - 07:14
#18
When I told my wife she was pretty non-plussed about it. We're in our 30's, so I guess we've come to understand that our sexual kinks aren't massively important in the grand scheme of things.
Personally, in your situation, I'd wait a few months until you've got to know her better and can see that this relationship is going to last. Telling her too soon might make her feel as though you do this with all the girls you meet, and that would give a bad impression.
Also, even though you might fantasize about inflation 24/7 don't impose it on her all the time, or she'll feel that she's interchangeable with another girl, because you just care about the fetish.
Tue, 11/23/2010 - 07:34
#19
Inflate123
oscar4111 wrote:
I got really lucky with my girlfriend. I was really worried about telling her but when I finally did she was totally cool with it. She even will rp with me and write me stories. I guess my point is that, in the long run you want to find a relationship with someone who will not only accept you for who you are, but will also embrace it.If not then maybe it's just not the right person for you.
This is similar to my experience. I didn't come out of the gate with this info, but I did tell her over time, and before we were married. It's fun now.
Sat, 11/27/2010 - 07:15
#20
Every person is different. Some people take it in stride and some people don't. I've been with the same girl for over three years. I told her less than a year into our relationship and she is still getting used to it. It is something that takes two dedicated people and a lot of patience to overcome. If you are lucky, you have found someone who is willing to compromise with you. If they are not willing to work with you, then it is time to move on.
I don't know, maybe you should ask her what she think about curvy women.