Well I'm relatively new to this

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deadhead2000
Well I'm relatively new to this

Hey everybody! So I'm a rather informal writer and I shan't bother with proper punctuation and any other ridiculous grammatiacal shit of that nature. My thoughts will just be streaming. ha ha! Now that I've gotten that out of the way might I be so bold as to introduce myself, not completely mind you.
I'm a 20 yr old male currently and unfortunately residing in the Bible Belt...
Im writing in regards of my lady friend who as of late has divulged her "deepest, darkest" secret.

She's into inflationism.

hope that term isn't pejorative

Anywho we've known each other via facebook for months but havent decided to actually hang out up until a couple weeks ago. Well no sooner after we got around to hang out did we start to "see" each other. Me and this gal really hit it off!

To cut to the chase tho we've quickly began to learn a lot about each other. Likes, dislikes, etc. and it wasn't until about a week ago that she finally told me of her fetish.

I was slightly disheartened by the means of her output but it was the only way she said she could have told me. She was so embarrassed that she had to excuse herself from my apartment to sit on the outside steps to scribble down onto a piece of paper what her secret was. In the text she told me of her fetish and how it arose and how she couldn't imagine me in such a way because of her embarrassment. Well after I read the letter I seeked her out by her car and told her that her fetish was nothing to be ashamed of and that there's absolutely nothing wrong with her natural urges and expressed to her that I still liked her all the same.

She my best friend and I think I might be falling for her and I want to make her as happy as possible so here in lies my question too all of you guys...

How exactly does one go about exercising this fetish? I consider myself a pretty sexually liberated fella but this one is so new to me that im just not at all knowledgeable about it.
Any advice, links ect. would really help thanks!

doubleintegral
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Welcome to the fray. And wow, she really couldn't wait to tell you, could she? A couple weeks after meeting in person - that's pretty quick. Many of us have probably held on to that secret a lot longer before telling our significant others.

First of all, you need to understand that the "inflation" fetish has a lot of variety. It will be helpful for you to know exactly what she likes and doesn't like. For instance, she may be into full-body inflation but not spherical inflation, or she may like room-sized inflation but not house-sized, etc. She may also only like male inflation, or she may like to fantasize about inflating herself. Find out what she likes, if she has any favorite stories or images, etc. If both of you are on the same page, that will help a lot in terms of role-playing if you decide to go that route.

Zepylin

Also, it's best to find out if "inflationism" means the fantasy of inflating (ie just the idea, drawings, roleplaying etc.) or she's into actual inflating (introducing gas into the colon to expand the stomach).

I'd say the fantasy would be easier to indulge. Actual inflating, well, I don't know much about that so I'll leave that for others to explain if that is indeed the case.

Good luck though, man.

Fleetingsanity
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Well as for actually trying this out in real life usually it's just done with balloons stuffed under clothes and etc... You can get into art or story writing that can be a good creative outlet for the two of you writing or drawing stories that get your mojo going so to speak.

Falcon Pawnch!

nineteenthly

Self-inflation (or inflating other people) in reality seems to be a minority interest compared to fantasy, but if you follow the links in my sig, you will find out how to do it. Just one thing though: most people do it anally and i do it orally. They say it's easier that way but i find it impossible.

http://www.youtube.com/user/nineteenthly

 

Anonymous

You could always buy an inflatable suit for either of you. (Not that I have one for sale or anything, see my other thread...)

http://bodyinflation.org/index.php?name=Forums&file=viewtopic&t=2473

ritties

DoubleIntegral is absolutely spot on. Try and find out the specifics of her fetish and then do your homework. The more you know about her fetish, the better you can incorporate it into your lives. Also, don't be afraid to track off on a tangent that you may find interesting as well. I think you have come to a good place, you can "research" all different areas of this fetish right here and you have a vast group of folks who have lots of knowledge about all aspects of the fetish so don't be afraid to ask. Oh, most of us don't bite (unless you like that sort of thing...)

airtankgirl5
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This is what I usually tell people in your position: Find out what she likes, artists/authors, use that. If she likes my work, let me know, I'll try to put in a good word, or try to help you put her in a story and pump her up :).