My wife found out. Whoops! Actually, though, she was okay with it. (She still won't let me try it on her, though).
What if someone found out?
No problem here. Actually all my past girl friends got into it, my ex wife got into it and even would inflate for me and my new girlfriend really gets off on the idea... So I've been really lucky. Don't hide from you fantasies. If you do how our others going to be part of them and maybe make some of them come true?
I suspect a few of my former roommates stumbled across drawings that I left on my desk when I got called away suddenly. None of them really said anything.
one former girlfriend knew I had a thing for larger women (I don't think she understood quite how large) she was ok with it.
My wife knows and accepts it. But I chose to tell her. One friend went snooping and found out; that severely damaged our friendship.
My last girlfriend I told. She thought is was creative.
But I was mad embarassed.
I've let a few of my serious bfs know. Each of them reacted differently. My best friend walked in on me once while inflating. She freaked out at first. Well you would too if you saw your best friends belly abnormally large with a pump running. After things were explained she thought it was kind of funny.
is there a choice for socialy screwed?
i will take this secret to my grave, no one will find out.
I haven't told anyone, not even my previous boyfriend...I suppose it'll just stay as my dirty secret.~
My ex-girlfriend found a page in my browser's auto-complete and she was pretty pissed. Then again, she's kind of a cranky feminist, too, so your results may vary.
I've told a few very close, trusted friends about it, and they've all been cool with it. No one really "gets" it, of course, but they didn't reject me for it. One person I told actually replied "oh yeah, I knew a guy in college who liked to blow up his girlfriend". I never thought I'd run into anyone else face to face who had heard of it. Now what would be really weird (though definitely cool) would be to run into someone in real life who was into it too, just randomly. But then I don't go around broadcasting it or anything.
That reminds me of a time where I thought a close friend of mine found me out a couple years ago. We were both taking some art classes and my friend beckoned me over saying "Hey check it out, I drew a picture of your dream girl, I know you like em like this". On the paper had a picture of a exagerated round/fat girl. I was dumbstruck. I thought he somehow figured it out and was making fun of me.
"What?" was all I could say. He then explains the drawings to me. Turns out it was just a plain old insulting caricature of a girl we met the other day who was a social misfit (and overweight). He knew nothing of my fetish, and the line was just sarcasm that coincedently struck close to home.
As for being 'found out'. It wouldn't be that big of a problem. A long time ago, when I was really young, I told a friend who thought it was strange but didn't think ill of me. Too bad his family had to move. Haven't seen him since.
Now, this'll be interesting. Only one of my friends know. I let it out I had some online drawings, and he pressed me into showing him it. He siad he's okay, since he saw weirder stuff, though he sometimes joke around how I dont do "normal" hentai.
I think my brother may know that I'm into the larger ladies as well, but knows nothing about the weirder stuff. I'm making a test, and let him see my more "tame" stuff, to check his reaction. I may eventualy let him see the rest later.
It's never been a big deal to me if anybody found out. All my family members and all the people I work with know about it...it's just my harmless, quirky hobby. No big deal! :wink:
My attitude is that this is a part of what makes me special...and in a way I'm knid of proud of it and refuse to hide it . People who can't accept me for what I am can kiss my big, inflated bee-hind. that's my philosophy anyway.
BH
As far as I know, nobody knows. Not family, friends, relatives....no one. For now I'd like to keep it that way. I don't think I'm emotionally ready to come out of the dark yet.
Currently, no ones about this. It just feels odd having to explain this to my friends and family if they find out.
Okay, I showed some of my "less" weird stuff to my brother. He did poke some fun about the size of some of my drawings (more like stating the obvious) but he was more interested on my art style really. After I'm a little more confortable, I can show him my more extreme stuff. About my actual inflation art... I'm not sure yet. I just want to let my family know more about what I do.
I would be forced to bury them in the back-yard
Well...for me...I would be embarrased at first, of course. Trying to mumble and speak at the same time while explaining what it was about. I don't expect anyone to understand...heh. It'll be interesting though. If they found out...ah well...if they don't like me for it, fudge them! Like I care. *-grins-*
I have told my best friend about it and he was cool with it. It did feel good getting some of that weight off my back. He said he's been through wierder situations. For instances he was mummified in ducktaped, to his seat on the school bus when he was young.
I have told my room mate about my body inflation fetish. It was midnight, we were in our beds and I started talking about fetishes. I mentioned body inflation as my favourite. Then i told her it was a joke, but she realised that I actually like it. She said my voice was different. Then I finally shared my feelings about body inflation with her. We turned on my pc and watched the porn video - real life belly inflation.
Now we talk about it sometimes. I get a lot of pleasure from talking about it. What a pity that I can't speak English well.
I have told my room mate about my body inflation fetish. It was midnight, we were in our beds and I started talking about fetishes. I mentioned body inflation as my favourite. Then i told her it was a joke, but she realised that I actually like it. She said my voice was different. Then I finally shared my feelings about body inflation with her. We turned on my pc and watched the porn video - real life belly inflation.
Now we talk about it sometimes. I get a lot of pleasure from talking about it. What a pity that I can't speak English well.
Your lucky that your room mate is so understanding.
gah, i want to see some real belly inflation video's. Where could i access some?
I have told my room mate about my body inflation fetish. It was midnight, we were in our beds and I started talking about fetishes. I mentioned body inflation as my favourite. Then i told her it was a joke, but she realised that I actually like it. She said my voice was different. Then I finally shared my feelings about body inflation with her. We turned on my pc and watched the porn video - real life belly inflation.
Now we talk about it sometimes. I get a lot of pleasure from talking about it. What a pity that I can't speak English well.
Your lucky that your room mate is so understanding.
gah, i want to see some real belly inflation video's. Where could i access some?
I think that telling your romantic partner should really be your ultimate goal. Nobody else can really help you be happy with it. I say this as someone who's happily married to a woman who doesn't share the fetish but certainly understands that it's important to me.
Here you are :).
http://s33.yousendit.com/d.aspx?id=2VGC4DLY5QNSH11VX3CYQXXWNZ
But the file will be there only for 7 days.
Id probably die, given how i present myself to my family, always serious and blah blah. Itd be awful. I actually had a story and pretty nice drawings i could have posted here, but i burnt them, afraid my mom would tidy up my room and find em. To this day, she has never been to the place i hid them...:(
My cousin knows and well shes not one to judge.
My Girlfriend knows, she's very understanding. I was touching her belly one day feeling it rise and fall when she breathes, and she knows stuff like that drives me crazy.
My parents actually caught me way back when I was probably 14 or 15 8O :!: (when I first found this stuff online and couldn't cover my tracks)but that was a good 6 years ago now. I dont know if they remember it anymore, but WOW was I embarrased. :oops:
My Girlfriend knows, she's very understanding. I was touching her belly one day feeling it rise and fall when she breathes, and she knows stuff like that drives me crazy.
This is where my wife connects with it too--as a weapon against me! :)
My girlfriend knows and plays along sometimes. She sticks her stomach out as far as she can whenever she wants to catch my attention.
She hasn't let me inflate her yet, but she said maybe after we're married.
I need to convince my girl to inflate her too, but how? Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm.
Depends on the outcome.
If they were ok with it, then no need to panic.
If they thought of me as a freak... well, I've got a gun collection, 40 acres of woods, shovels, and plenty of dead trees. NO ONE would find them.
my ex-girlfriend knows about it, heck she even developed a like for the fetish herself after a while. The only other person I told reallyis a friend of mine who lives a short train-ride away...well it was more like she forced it out of me. She was ok with it, she didn't think any different of me and we don't really talk about it, but I think she still knows O.o
Have I told anyone? Yes. Did I always do that...heck no! I remember the first time my step-mother found a little note book I had been sketching pictures in of that PlayBoy magazine girl inflating. I wasnt at home at the time, and so she just took it and didnt say a word when I got home. She waited until my dad got home, called me into his office, and showed both of us...I figured myself for dead. I did get in trouble, but not all that much. My dad was more pissed that I had been getting into his magazines without asking then anything else. But the one thing about it all that really struck me as odd was whenmy step-mother pointed at the last picture I had drawn where the girls shirt finally popped open showing her boobs and asked "I want to know where you even knew to draw everything?" as if I didnt know what a girls body looked like wihtout clothes. I told her that I had been through a sex ed class in the 5th grade, and that it wasnt to hard to figure out. LOL That didnt make her much happier.
As to who I tell now, well I've told most of my girlfreinds, none of which have freaked out, and several have played along. The rest just sort of thought it "interesting" but didnt seem to hold it against me. I figure with the level of exceptance Ive had so far, theres no reason for me to hide it from anyone else I date either. So, for me its one of those things I share upfront, I see it as being honest with them...Id rather me tell them then have a woman Im dating find all kinds of "weird crap" on my computer. But thats just me, it may not work as well for others out there.
Honestly, I think its too bad that more of us in this community cant say who they really are or where they are from etc. Dont get me wrong, I totaly understand peoples need for being anonimous(spell?). But to be truthful, Id much rather date a woman who IS into inflation, rather then try and explain it to someone who will never quite grasp it. Its part of me and my life, theres no changing that, so Id rather be with someone who excepts and cares about that part of me to. Instead of someone who just says "Oh ok, thats weird but funny" and goes on to ask about the weather. :/ Anyways, thats my 2 dollars worth, didnt mean to turn it into a soap-box thing. :P
Korgfal
No one knows about my "special" interests, not my family nor my friends. And I think I'm not going to let them know, at least not yet. I'm not just ready for that. Of course there would be a certain relief, if people would know, though: At least I wouldn't have to hide it.
Nobody knows about my fetish either. If I had a girlfriend I might tell her, but I can't be sure. I certainly wouldn't just come out with it, it would be a carefully thought out thing.
As for hiding it, i don't have a problem with that, as I don't have to worry about it. All my stuff is on a hidden drive on my computer and recent documents/web history etc are erased. pencil drawings are in a locked briefcase in my student house that no-one notices. I have a lock on my bedroom door down there too and I don't know anyone inquisitive enough to try and dig up dirt on me so no danger of anyone finding out
Who here actually has had success actually telling someone or being caught only to get a nice surpise? And can you offer any advice? I'm actively looking for girlfriends this year and it would be nice to have some tips for the time when these sorts of topics come up
Who here actually has had success actually telling someone or being caught only to get a nice surpise?
Talk to Mr. OMA. He has had great success inside and out of his family and friends.
Me, personally? My friends know I find larger women attractive, but they don't know about the inflation stuff. I'm keeping that part personal.
A couple of my friends know, and my family doesn't care, but if it were to spread like a virus I'd be really embarrased.
is there a choice for socialy screwed?i will take this secret to my grave, no one will find out.
Same here. Everybody has a skeleton in their closet that they don't let anyone know. It's just that for a handful of people, that happens to be a body inflation fetish. I'd be willing to keep even less potentially embarassing things from humanity. I be all secretive like dat.
I think CattyN's pic 'For Later' visualises this perfectly.
I have sorta told two friends. But as it turns out they're into (In my opinion) even weirder stuff. So everyones cool and we dont really talk about it. As far as girlfriends, Ive never had a girlfriend long enough to get around to telling her. Ive always wanted to have a girlfriend that was into it or would at least accept it, but as we all know those are few and far between, and I have yet to find a gf to really be with at all, let alone my accept my fetish. Anyway enough about my pathetic love life... Not to change the subject but has anyone given thought to maybe creating a dating-type site for our particular interest?
Removed.
I don't know what I'd do. I'd have to think through it to explain to my parents or something... I'd rather not get caught. But so far, no one knows. 'cept the interweb. But it won't tell, will it?
Well... first I would be embrassed. Deathly embrassed if someone caught me in the act.
The closest example of what I would do when I told a best-friend I was bi. He was actually very open about my sexuality, and asked a bunch of questions. The big one being: "So, when you looking for porn, how do you figure out what you wanna watch." I simply replied, "Depends on the mood."
But I know exampling inflation would be a whole lot tougher, knowing I would probably also tell him about my early attraction to latex to help explain it. ^_^;
Another step for me this weekend. I had some old friends over, and I showed my website with my "normal" stuff, along some big girls pics. Since they had already see me on some BBW comunities at Orkut, it didn't really came as a surprise to them, just that I had drawn so much of it. Someday I'll end showing them my actual inflation stuff, to see how they'd react.
Who here actually has had success actually telling someone or being caught only to get a nice surpise? And can you offer any advice? I'm actively looking for girlfriends this year and it would be nice to have some tips for the time when these sorts of topics come up
I am a success story. Oddly, I just wrote about this on my blog at http://inflate123.blogspot.com.
Four people in real life know. Three I told. One found on because they were nosy. Guess which person I no longer speak to?
Four people in real life know. Three I told. One found on because they were nosy. Guess which person I no longer speak to?
The one that was nosy.
And I don't blame you... if someone nosed around my private life, I would hate him. No matter if it was about my inflation fetish (or any fetish in general) or even my sexuality, I would hate him. All I say, if someone is curious, they just need to ask. :D
I have to say that I've had this fetish for awhile and it's pretty uncomfortable for me to think about discussing it in person. There's a friend I have who is incredibly open about her fetishes and experiments and I have to say that I envy her greatly because I can't even share this with people I would like to. I don't know exactly how my current relationship would fair if it were to slip out that I happen to like the idea of being inflated, if only in a roleplay sense.
What if someone found out?
I just don't know I just don't know.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.