Basically - I've known this guy for a while (I'm female) and we recently started flirting. Yesterday he told me he has a body inflation fetish, particuarly for bellys. I don't judge him nor do I think it's weird, having a few strange fetishes myself - however this is not really one of them.
How do I be supportive? Are there any role-play techniques I can ease myself into if our relationship goes there? This isn't my area of expertise so I figured I'd come and ask. Any help/advice?
Thanks!
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Give him some time first, if it just happened yesterday, he might be wary of talking more about it. I would wait until the weekend, that way he can be sure you're ok with his kinks.
Trust me, I'm not pushing the subject or anything - I definitely want to let him have his space and feel comfortable. This post is just me doing some research to try to understand/prepare more before he brings it up again. That's also why I said "Are there any role-play techniques I can ease myself into if our relationship goes there?" - if being the operative word.
Thanks for the responses so far :)
Something simple you can always try is just putting a balloon under you shirt something like that. It all really depends on what he's into but if he's into belly expansion then that's something easy to do. Also reading some of the tamer inflation/expansion stories might give you a better idea of what he's into. Most of the stories here have ratings so you'll know what you're getting into before reading them. I know with most cases in expansion/inflation the growth and the arousal usually go hand in hand but that's not always the case. So, like some of the people here have mentioned probing and asking questions about it might give you a better idea of what he's into. For the most part people into inflation/expansion just view it as something that's fantasy and fun I'm sure your boyfriend is no exception so just take it slow maybe find a happy medium something you like about it and he likes about it.
Hey, my girlfriend, like you does not share this fetish. She does what she can for but I dont think we would enjoy it as much if I hadnt told her what I liked and disliked. Your best bet is to ask him what he likes, for example what words to use or actions to make during role play. Everyone on this site has different likes and dislikes so for best results ask your boyfriend. He maybe shy to share at first but just let him know that you want to be apart of the fetish for him and he should open up. All the best and remember have fun!