So I just talked to a girl I have known for years. We talked about the weird stuff people like. She was the first person I've told about in real life about my inflation fetish. It was intesting and liberating at the same time. She said it was intersting. How as anybody else dealth with their first admission to someone about their fetish in real life as opposed to random people they have talked to on the internet? I mean this is something I've never told anyone in the loooong years I've had this fetish.
Confession
Tue, 12/18/2012 - 02:18
#1
Confession
Tue, 12/18/2012 - 16:10
#3
I never bothered telling my older girlfriends about my fetish because ironically it never felt like it was a big deal to me back then.
I'm sure I will end up exposing my fetish to my next girlfriend tho, because I've now realized that your partner will probably surprise you with how much weirdness they can tolerate, especially if they know it's something that turns you on.
Wed, 12/19/2012 - 09:00
#4
I told my first girlfriend about it, and she told me I'm a sick fuck and should be institutionalized for such disgusting sexual deviancy. She promptly split up, and that was the last I spoke to her.
My current girlfriend doesn't mind, and will put in a minimal effort to play it out a little during sex.
Wed, 12/19/2012 - 20:59
#5
darth_clone19
I have told several women I have either dated or flirted with, and none have freaked out or anything like that. Some have found it interesting, others very interesting and others have incorporated it in conversations or sexual situations. Only once in my life have I, by telling a woman, awakened in her this fetish (which was a fairly recent event.) Its been amazingly interesting, to say the absolute least :)
Wed, 12/19/2012 - 23:16
#6
Darth Clone, you are indeed a fortunate guy. -Latecomer
Wed, 12/19/2012 - 23:41
#7
sethshark
I've got a girl I've been flirting and having fun with for a couple weeks asking me repeatedly what my "kink" is... Still haven't decided what I'll end up doing but I think I'll most likely tell her tonight... See what happens I guess, what's the worst that could happen....
Thu, 12/20/2012 - 08:12
#8
I awakened my girlfriend's inflation fetish by telling her mine. I find it quite easy to discuss it online, I think thats how it is with everyone, as I would imagine that most people arent that open about their fetish, whatever it is, and this way we can stay anonymous. Talking about it, regardless of whether its online or to a real life person, has made me feel some what better about it though :)
Fri, 12/21/2012 - 07:19
#9
I think the first girl I told was somebody I was talking to from a newsgroup who I wanted to meet. She sounded a little surprised at what I told her but she had her own weird fetish so she couldnt say too much. I have told less than 5 other girls, no guys, about it and not got any severe reactions. For years I wondered how I could meet somebody who would like this or even accept it. But since all the weird stuff Ive seen on Internet I think theres a better chance than ever to meet somebody. We should have inflation personals here. I blew air up my girlfriends butt one time. She didnt like it. :)
Sat, 12/22/2012 - 20:58
#10
darth_clone19
I think that if you have confidence and you have built up a good image of yourself towards the other person, he/she will respect and appreciate you and accept whatever you say, even if its a weird inflation fetish :)
Sat, 12/22/2012 - 21:06
#11
That sounds great Darth_clone19!
I think that is actually the secret.
Sun, 12/23/2012 - 11:07
#12
I told my first wife, but unfortunately, she couldn't accept it. She asked me to remove the fetish from my life because she felt threatened by it. She wasn't a bad person, merely narcissistic and insecure by nature. Ultimately, it was the biggest catalyst for my divorce.
I'm remarried now, and confided with my wife early on in our relationship. She's very supportive and understanding of who I am. Now, it's my turn to convince myself it's natural, after so many years of being treated like an invalid because of it.
Fri, 02/20/2015 - 00:19
#13
When I first told my girlfriend she had the same fetish as me, but I was scared because I didn't what to lose someone I've known for years
Thu, 03/05/2015 - 08:18
#14
doctorbo
I always siad it pretty early with my gf - but since I'm a comic book nerd, draws a lot of curvy woman (even in my everyday drawing), like cartoons and all it never came at such a big surprise. One of my gf, who was quite heavy, even embraced it since that mean't I loved her plus-size wholehearthly. She had been the one more open open it.
My current (and hopefully lifelong) gf wasn't that surprised, doesn't quite get it but when she get pregnant with our first child it did help her cope with her belly bump and new body image as I came forward even more during her pregnancy.
Else I do have friend into the furry community and, as ostracised as this group they are by the general geek community they are very open to discuss a wide array of topic, including sexuality since some of it find it's way into our works (drawing, text, chat, etc.).
Most of my furry friend aren't into inflation per say, but do find it funny as a personnal kinks of mine that just go along the whole fetishist crowd. Mostly they just found it funny, as indeed they,re is a slapstick angle to a girl begging blown up like a balloon and often come back to me pointing me fun inflation pics or video knowing that's my thing ;)
Thu, 04/23/2015 - 15:41
#15
Pvm me
Wed, 04/22/2015 - 02:16
#16
SimplyEmilyInflatee
I myself have told nobody but my girlfriend and let's face it, you come out about your fetishes to your girlfriend/boyfriend, and you think "there goes that relationship". Not in my case. I've already come out to her about my other issues and as such, she weren't bothered by those. When I told her about the fetish, she just looked at me, then smiled and said "Interesting". I thought I'd leave it at that... It's been several weeks since I came out to her and what did she make me do in the first week? Buy a cheap as hand pump so she could inflate me. I'm starting to think she's becoming a dominator inflator, don't get me wrong, I love it. The way we do it is the tube goes into my ass, she blows a balloon up and put it on the other end. Then she toys with me as she either quickly or slowly inflates me. She blows me to my limit, and then leaves the tube in but as well as the balloon, so I take longer to un-inflate. After my inflating, she just caresses with my stomach or suckles on my boobs
She's purely amazing. I got her to do it one day, she looked like she enjoyed it as much as I did, so I think we now have another fan of Belly Inflation.
Wed, 04/22/2015 - 02:16
#17
SimplyEmilyInflatee
I myself have told nobody but my girlfriend and let's face it, you come out about your fetishes to your girlfriend/boyfriend, and you think "there goes that relationship". Not in my case. I've already come out to her about my other issues and as such, she weren't bothered by those. When I told her about the fetish, she just looked at me, then smiled and said "Interesting". I thought I'd leave it at that... It's been several weeks since I came out to her and what did she make me do in the first week? Buy a cheap as hand pump so she could inflate me. I'm starting to think she's becoming a dominator inflator, don't get me wrong, I love it. The way we do it is the tube goes into my ass, she blows a balloon up and put it on the other end. Then she toys with me as she either quickly or slowly inflates me. She blows me to my limit, and then leaves the tube in but as well as the balloon, so I take longer to un-inflate. After my inflating, she just caresses with my stomach or suckles on my boobs
She's purely amazing. I got her to do it one day, she looked like she enjoyed it as much as I did, so I think we now have another fan of Belly Inflation.
Wed, 04/22/2015 - 08:47
#18
When I told my first girlfriend, she told me she wasn't into it, and said she wanted nothing to do with it XD We both still got a good laugh about it tho. My girlfriend after her thought it was more funny than sexual. Now, I'm a bit more comfortable with my fetish whenever I have a girlfriend
Wed, 04/22/2015 - 23:54
#19
Mine's a story and a half. Here it goes.
I first came to terms with this fetish while dating my first girlfriend - I think the discovery of this site made it more apparent for me. I dated my first girlfriend for nearly a year but I never felt comfortable enough with her to tell her, so I kept it in completely.
A little over half a year into dating my current girlfriend, we were out at a party together. She had eaten something that night that hadn't quite agreed with her, and she had bloated to the point that while standing behind her with my hands on her stomach, I could feel that it was bigger and much firmer than normal. I was getting pretty turned on by it and she knew that too, but despite her numerous questions about what was turning me on so much, I couldn't answer. I just said that I'd tell her later.
So later on that night we were alone and just sitting together, and she said that her stomach was feeling sore so I was rubbing it for her - it wasn't really helping my situation but I went with it because we both liked it. Then she brought up the question again, then and there. Understandably I was a little sheepish but I managed to imply to her what it was that was turning me on, and she just said "oh okay" like it was no big deal. The rest of the night went on like normal.
Fast forward a few hours, we were talking over the phone after the party was done, and I felt it necessary to bring it up. Her initial reaction didn't seem like it was all she had to say about it, so I told her and tried to explain to her why I like it (which I never could - does ANYONE know WHY we like this?), and the entire time my heart was in my throat, thinking I had jeopardised the future of our relationship. But she assured me that while yes, it wasn't exactly common, she had heard plenty of things she thought were weird and that she didn't think inflation is one of them, instead saying it's "just a little mysterious" seeing as she hadn't heard of it before me. I asked her if she would like to try it one day, and she cheekily responded with "hmm...maybe".
That was nearly a year ago now, and it's safe to say that since I've pretty much converted her (in a way). A few months ago was the first time she properly tried it with me, and we've been practising now and then ever since. For her it's not the act of inflation that does it, it's how sex feels because of it. For me, well...every time she pulls the pump out while we're going at it, I feel like I've won the lottery. I've never been into inflating myself, only others, and together we've discovered that a little bit of sexual stimulation while inflating helps you to find where your real limit is - she's only inflated about five times or so, but she's reached sizes that I never thought were possible for a newbie.
Anyway, I'm straying off topic a little. What I'm trying to say is, sometimes it might feel like the hardest thing to do, and for me it certainly has been one of the most difficult things I've done, but looking at the benefits now, telling her back then was definitely worth the anxiety I went through that night.
Thu, 04/23/2015 - 11:33
#20
Another Canadian Guy
Man, thats a great story, and I'm really glad to hear. It's kinda funny how people find it weird, then when they try it they see what they hype or pleasure of it is. I wish you both well, and that the relationship continues to get more strong as it goes on.
Thu, 04/23/2015 - 14:54
#21
My confession. I've been into inflation for so long. I'm just now stepping out into the open. My confession I'm addicted to inflation
Thu, 04/23/2015 - 15:23
#22
I like being the damened in distress. :) with no one that saves me hahaha. ........(moans lightly and grips tummy) "oh.....Ahhhh Oooww....Och. ... ok I think it's over...."...(POP!!!)
I remember I told my first girlfriend about it. she was kind of weirded out, and didn't want to indulge it at first, but she didn't hate me for it. she said "I guess all guys have a weird fetish, and that's yours."
now I realize I was a lot more worried about it than I should have been. not everyone might be as accepting as some, though.