I just started dating a guy who trusted me enough to tell me about his fetish of inflation. I have done a lot of online searching and I am not into doing anything harmful to myself but would like to know how to please him somehow with his fetish. Any suggestions?
Need help in understanding how to please boyfriend
Sat, 03/15/2014 - 07:54
#1
Need help in understanding how to please boyfriend
Sat, 03/15/2014 - 09:55
#3
Thank you so much I will ask and return with I'm sure tons more questions.
Sat, 03/15/2014 - 11:48
#4
Blue_Eyes
I used to text inflation suggestive things/pictures to mine and that would usually do the job.
Pretend to be bloated, inflated etc.
Keeping this less graphic I did "services" for him while I let him watch inflation videos online.
As stated above, find out what he is into exactly and then build onto that.
Sat, 03/15/2014 - 16:51
#5
pjoker
I think the first question is whether he's the sort who likes to do actual bloating or if it's completely mental for him. It's completely imaginary for many of us.
You don't have to do anything to yourself or him. Mostly likely you can just learn a bit about trigger words and maybe a bit of roleplaying. Basically, inflation dirty talk and a bit of imagination.
A lot of us with blueberry fantasies also have chewing gum fetishes, so ask about that.
In any case, certainly don't do anything you're not comfortable with. A bit of pretending or stuffing things under your clothes would probably be fine.
Good on you for being open-minded and taking part. It's not lost on us how odd this fetish is, and it's really hard to find ways to satisfy it. What an awesome girlfriend.
Sat, 03/15/2014 - 17:31
#6
airtankgirl5
As someone who was brought into this by her boyfriend, I can tell you: Knowledge is power.
The more he tells you what he likes, the more you can do for him. And don't be afraid to ask for something YOU like in return.
Sat, 03/15/2014 - 20:54
#7
Thank you everyone so far I am just new to it all and wasn't sure how to adk.the questions and he is kind of shy about it because he thinks he's off for having this fetish. I let him know I'm ok with it and I find gratification in being able to play into his fantasies regardless what they maybe.
Mon, 03/17/2014 - 19:48
#8
That's a perfeclty understandable sentiment. In that case, let him set the pace for it. The importnat thing is to make sure he doesn't feel pressured. Maybe you can post your questions, and we can try to refine it for you. Keep up the support though, that is key when talking about something so intimate.
Sun, 03/16/2014 - 09:14
#9
Helen Sweller
I can't say anything that hasn't already been said, but good luck to you hun! o^.^o Who knows? You may even start to really like this.... ^.~
Sun, 03/16/2014 - 17:25
#10
I told my girlfriend about my fetish with body inflation and at first she didn't know what to say, but then she laughed and said that she was OK with it too. I asked if she wanted to a suit inflation, and she said she was OK with it. So maybe after asking the questions maybe you should see if he wouldn't mind a suit inflation or maybe it can be a beach ball underneath your shirt.
Mon, 03/17/2014 - 21:24
#11
My girlfriend knows about it, is okay with it, and willing to talk dirty fetish talk with me, and I'm STILL shy about it. Something about having someone else (who doesn't have the fetish) try to push my buttons makes it more apparant how ridiculous this fetish is, and it makes me really self-conscious. So. Yeah, make sure he's okay with it.
But I can tell you from experience that every single one of us with this fetish has heard people casually, jokingly mention that if they keep eating like this they'll blow up like a balloon, or they feel like a blimp, or something along those lines, and the unexpectedness of it, coupled with being out in public, or at least in the company of people who are unaware, makes a little tiny part of out brain bolt upright and start acting like that wolf in those Tex Avery cartoons. When we're in public, or out with friends, my girlfriend will intentionally say something like this cause she knows it drives me nuts. She does the same thing with blueberries, she'll mention them or point out blueberry something-or-other whenever it's present, and, even though I'm not into blueberry inflation any more than air inflation, I know what her intention is and it turns me on so hard. So that's a good, easy place to start.
Wed, 03/19/2014 - 19:59
#12
Blow up a couple of party balloons to a reasonable boob shape and stick them under yer sweater ;)
Tue, 03/25/2014 - 20:22
#13
AshyPie
I really don't see why you don't just aak him what he wants guys are pretty easy to figure out if you just open your mind… unlike girls they never seem to get bored of seeing the same thing twice…
Thu, 02/19/2015 - 21:49
#14
try to draw yourself inflated
Well, for one, good on you for sticking with him! Dirty talk is always a good place to start. Generally speaking, there are certain phrases that work well for most of us (feeling bloated, large, full, etc.). That said, there are different subsets of this fetish. Try asking your bf what exactly it is he's into, breast expansion, full body inflation, blueberry (similar to full body), and the like. Also ask whether or not he likes popping. Feel free to ask more questions if you need some more help.