how to inform you pathner about you inflation secret

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Tue, 10/21/2014 - 09:50

firnov

Hello you all.

I wonder of I can have some information and experiances of you by asking you this question “ how to tell your pathner about this, and how does she reacts?”

It feels of it is a kind of taboo. I don’t sie myself saying to a girl I like “would you mind if I blow you up till you finaly explode?”. I know its not exactly the way to say it, but it all coms to close to the point. I don’t know how to tell somewann about this. I know I exelly should do this, but im scared that I freak them out (I don’t mean it in a bad way, buts just how I feel).

Did some of you tell you (ex)pathner about this? And how did she react? And was she able to do the inflation for you? (im not that kind of person who force her in to it, only as she want it to)

Thanks for your attention

Ps: I know my grammer is not the best (because im not used to spreak English and im not good with writing).

And boom goes the inflatee

Tue, 10/21/2014 - 11:35

Lopni

Thanks for asking, Pan Firnov (or sudar' Firnov?)

There are many threads answering your question on this awesome forum - I don't want to spoil your fun of reading it in-and-out.

Your girl is just another human being, she will feel it if you are ashamed of the things that operate your arousal - and that will make her uneasy as well, regardless whether you tell her or not.

Wed, 10/22/2014 - 06:34

(Reply to #2) #3

firnov

your welcom. and thanks for awnsering Lopni

yes i explored this site a little and i really like it.

well... meby its a shaming, but i dont feel that way myself (because i really like the inflation stuff. but its more to show her your feelings about somthing she isn't familiar with this. but its just a fetish i realised, she most have 1 to i think. so meby she will feel happy to tel hers to

And boom goes the inflatee

Tue, 10/21/2014 - 16:14

confusedgirl80

Hi there, so I'm actually on the opposite end. My boyfriend is the one with this fetish and I'm the one that found out about it. Coming from someone on the other end, it would be best if you tell her before she accidentally finds out. I found out because he left a page open on my laptop. At first, I didn't know what it was. I had no idea this was a thing. Honestly I was a little confused. When I brought it up to him, we ended up fighting about it. If he would have just been honest and sat me down, we could have talked about it. Yes, I would have thought it was a little weird, but who isn't a little weird? Just sit her down when you have her alone and tell her about it. She may have some questions, or she may not want to talk about it. Either way, she will need some time to adjust. If she completely freaks out and doesn't want anything to do with you, then she isn't worth it.

I finally got my boyfriend to talk to me about it and once he realized I was understanding and that I wanted to use this as a way to enhance our sex life, he opened up more to me. Now your girl friend may be understanding, but that doesn't mean she will want to partake, and you can't make her either.

The best thing you can do is tell her, because an open honest realationship is healthy.

Tue, 10/21/2014 - 17:38

(Reply to #3) #5

Dizzibelle

^^^ This. A dozen times over. Seriously, if you value your relationship, this is the best route to take.

Wed, 10/22/2014 - 06:50

(Reply to #3) #6

firnov

thanks for your reaction Confusedgirl80. your words are really inspirational to me. and speccially that your in the same possision of my futere pathner. i think i will tell her the way you sayed it (and again, im not gona force her in to it, thats just wrong). and i will tell her the tre (rule 2 in relationship). your really helped me. thanks

And boom goes the inflatee

Thu, 10/23/2014 - 19:53

(Reply to #8) #7

confusedgirl80

You're welcome. I hope everything goes well. I'm glad I could help.

Wed, 10/22/2014 - 00:10

Yrrall_Dlok1

Just be open about it, and also to be a little more persuasive hint that it can be silly and fun as well

Thu, 10/23/2014 - 09:17

(Reply to #5) #9

firnov

i think i will be. and hints are an good idea, so it is not a big shock anymore as you tell it.

And boom goes the inflatee

Wed, 10/22/2014 - 09:01

#10

Lopni

I just realised one thing...

Maria and I actually never talked about it.

It was a process of gradually becoming closer. Being curious about each other. Months and years together. You know? There was no such moment when I said: okay, here's the thing - and explained entire world to her.

Srsly ^_^

You can see from my older stories that I was a fan of popping.

In fact, as I recall, I just started poking her with jokes about swelling - well, she didn't mind. And when she was curious about me, I just answered whatever she wanted to know. She did the same.

Then, when we became closer, I think on year 2 of married life, we started discussing our fantasies. And the following thing was uncovered. Before meeting me she was into obliteration. Also a fetish. Like - "this is my last sex, so I'd better enjoy it". And during the time when we were talking about inflation, it appears she decided: hey, there's a POP, that's my obliteration. And became a popping fan!

Then, at some point we started to RP during/before/after sex. And a few times did her fantasy. Well, it scared a *** out of me - I just IMAGINED it, even if popping is clean, you know?

So now I'm not into popping at all - but she is. So to speak, fetish preserved in a family ^_^ For the most part, I just imagine my thing and she - hers. We RP, yes, but very rarely.

It's life, it's not a one "here goes" talk. You just live together, your fantasies mix, change, influence each other. Be honest, care, protect, love each other - cause that's what it's all about. And let God richly bless you both.

Thu, 10/23/2014 - 09:23

(Reply to #9) #11

firnov

you sound really lucky and happy to me. its almost telecanetic that you and her has this fetish.

i see al the stories about telling your pathner will have a happy and. im glad about that.

good luck with your RP, and care good for you wife.

And boom goes the inflatee

Fri, 10/24/2014 - 19:57

#12

Berry-DukeAlt

I don't have a girlfriend to talk about this little fetish to (hell, I gave up on dating. I'll probably die a virgin XD), but I told my best friend about it since she brought it up. She ended up being very cool with it, which surprised me a bit. she even wanted to see how she would look inflated, and we just had a good laugh about it.

Mon, 10/27/2014 - 11:01

(Reply to #13) #13

firnov

well, your friend sound like a great person to me. specially when she does this stuff to make you smile and feel good.

and dont worry about the girls, im sure you will find the "one". so as we say in my country" on evry bottle fits a top".

And boom goes the inflatee

Tue, 11/04/2014 - 12:35

(Reply to #13) #14

WhiteMono

now I'm just wondering what she did to achieve the inflated look? haha

Mon, 10/27/2014 - 12:17

#15

Berry-DukeAlt

she is a great friend. I've helped her with her interests and even helped her be with the man of her dreams. The fact that she not only accepts my little fetish, but also really likes it shows I'm a very lucky friend.

And as for the girls, I stopped dating cause nobody is really worth dating in my area. I'm saving up for the right person, and I'm pretty happy in the meantime X3

Mon, 11/03/2014 - 21:04

#16

AshyPie

You are all over reacting… Having a big secret of my own I know that honesty is the only option. But is inflation really a big deal? If you can't just tell your girl that you like inflation. Then you don't need to be looking at it. It's the same way with nudes. If you can't tell your girlfriend that you look at naked girls online then don't do it. It's not like inflation is so integral to your lives that you need it now and forever to shape who you are and who you settle down with. It's no more then a simple sexual association.

I'm a pretty kitty~

Wed, 11/05/2014 - 10:24

(Reply to #16) #17

firnov

your totally right about this and i know. but i was just wonderd how you can inform about this kind of stuff. and i know this feelings arnt somthing wrong, but how would you explain it it somewann who isnt familiar with it. but i get a lot of good reactions.

thanks for your reaction

And boom goes the inflatee

Wed, 11/05/2014 - 17:22

(Reply to #18) #18

AshyPie

Thanks! I was afraid of looking like a jerk… This topic hits me personally because I have a secret that apparently renders me undateable… I'd just tell her… Make sure she's not 'In the mood' or on her period when you tell her also dont tell her on a fancy date or via texting… Those things will cloud her judgement.

I'm a pretty kitty~

Thu, 11/06/2014 - 10:51

(Reply to #20) #19

firnov

hee, dont worry, i dont think your a jerk... i saw you reacted on this forum to help my and money other people. and i really like your tips for the times not to tell her, its a big help in my oppinion.

dont belief your undateble. you will find the right pathner in the future. and we all on this site for you to awnser and help you.

And boom goes the inflatee

Thu, 11/13/2014 - 23:27

(Reply to #21) #20

AshyPie

Aww… Thank you… That's really nice of you! =P

I'm a pretty kitty~

Wed, 11/05/2014 - 15:56

#21

Succoria

Turns out, one of my exes shared the fetish, (a variation, mind you, but still) and even had it before we started dating, but kept it to herself until last week. The odds of that are mind-boggling.

Wed, 11/26/2014 - 09:47

(Reply to #19) #22

firnov

i can imagne that it would be a frustration that you discoverd this on the end of the relation. meby more luck next time

And boom goes the inflatee

Thu, 11/20/2014 - 10:50

#23

doctorbo

I told her very early to my gf in our relation. She did found it odd, but given that I always draw women with incredibly large bust and big belly she wasn't that surprised either. I told her I'm a cartoon loving guy and love wacky, cartoon-like behavior to turn me on. For a while she confused it for plain old fascination with big boobs and big girls (which I also love to a lesser degree), but after some example and some more talk she somehow got it. She don't share it, but do understand it a bit.

When she got pregnant she even teased me about me, which was awesome. In fact, her pregnancy was a good way to talk about it. My interest even had her better cope with her belly bump and weight gain during her pergnancy, so that's that!

Visit the doctor's office: http://doctorbo.deviantart.com/

Wed, 11/26/2014 - 09:53

(Reply to #23) #24

firnov

its important i think that you make your pathner know what you feel and mean. so i think you did a good job.

about the pregnancy, well played :p . i think you made your girlfriend really happy with that

And boom goes the inflatee

Wed, 12/17/2014 - 04:06

#25

firnov

well, i tolled her about it. she was totally oke with it, but its not her thing. but im really happy she understands me.

i want to thank you all for your help and support

And boom goes the inflatee

Wed, 12/17/2014 - 04:06

#26

firnov

well, i tolled her about it. she was totally oke with it, but its not her thing. but im really happy she understands me.

i want to thank you all for your help and support

And boom goes the inflatee

Thu, 02/19/2015 - 23:54

#27

Ironcat5000

Show her a pic of inflation first and see her reaction. That's what I did with my girlfriend. She did have an inflation fetish too so I don't know if it'll work. Just ask her what she thinks of it before doing anything else

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