hey, new here, kinda lost

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Tue, 07/05/2016 - 11:40

optimaprimal

hey all

so i think i actually made an account here a long time ago but i can't remember the specifics.

i'm 28 years old, male, straight, and based on my time exploring my fetish, i seem to be on the rare side of the spectrum.

my ultimate fantasies involve being forcefully inflated (like a big round balloon) until i explode, by a woman. they also involve different kinds of puffed-up clothing being worn by the woman as well.

this has kind of become frustrating in recent months for a lot of reasons. first, it doesn't appear to be very common, so it's hard to find any material at all.

secondly, not only am i a virgin, but i've never even dated. so i don't really have any women in my life i can discuss this with. i don't know how i could explore the fetish further because i'm in one of those weird late-20s-times where there's barely any women around at all, to be honest.

i was on darkfetish for a while but that turned up nothing. (probably because i'm awful at messaging first)

it's gotten to the point where i've looked on clips4sale for women who fulfill requests like mine, but i'd rather not have that on my credit card statements, plus it's a pretty penny and i'm out of work for a few more months.

role playing online doesn't help much either because i kinda need to see the person clearly. i've written up like..scripts that a woman could do and film herself doing (which was the plan for the clips4sale requests) but i just don't know who i could go to for something like that. (funny enough, some clips4sale women have actually done things like this already, and i purchased a few clips using gift cards, and..they were almost all..pretty bad..)

so i'm really..stuck and frustrated. and so i figured it was time to join up here, because if anyone would have advice on the matter, it's you guys.

any advice would be awesome, sorry if i wrote a bit too much

-optima

Tue, 07/05/2016 - 11:43

optimaprimal

my topic posted twice, i'm so sorry, i can't figure out how to delete the other :/

Tue, 07/05/2016 - 14:32

Another Canadian Guy

I know that you're straight, but have you considered talking to other guys about it? While I'm also heterosexual, I generally don't treat my fetish as sexual, however, you may find some solace in talking to others of the same gender about it. That doesn't make it homosexual if that's what your afraid of, attraction to the same sex's reproductive organs does. Even if it's roleplay, that's perfectly acceptable and normal to have it with the same gender, and I know you said you weren't really into it.

Also, what's wrong if clips4sale comes up on your credit card statement? Are you embarrassed that you have a fetish, and just like 85% of the population you masturbate to it? If you are then that's a little sad. Accept who you are dude, nobody cares if you browse porn or not.

Finally, have you considered purchasing an inflatable suit? They are a pretty penny and I know that cash may be tight, but it's something to consider down the road if you haven't already. If not you can possibly check sites like 'fetlife' or the like to see if there are any locals that would be willing to let you try one on. People can be fairly open about it, as long as you're open about your intentions but not desperate to hook up. You might even find new friendships on there as well, and trust me when I say it's very liberating to be able to chat with someone about your sexual interests.

(Not on here too often, replies might be slow.)

Tue, 07/05/2016 - 15:01

firnov

Welcome on the site. Feel free to ask anything. I hope we can help you.

I was a bit like you first. I thougt why do i like to inflate and pop girls. Lucky me we have the internet, so i find out im not the only one.

This site is filled with really nice people. They helped me a lot to.

And boom goes the inflatee

Tue, 07/05/2016 - 16:27

optimaprimal

Thank you both!

I'm not worried about same sex stuff at all, to be fully honest it just..doesn't work for me. I've considered it because it'd make finding material a lot easier if I wasn't stuck to one sex, but..unfortunately I am. I can talk about it with any type of person but when it comes to actually doing stuff with it, it only seems to work with women for me.

And I guess I just haven't gotten comfortable enough yet. Maybe in time I will. Maybe being here will help with that. But I dunno, I guess I'm just paranoid.

Maybe I should check out fetlife just to try to find people to talk to about this kind of thing. A suit would be out of my price range at the moment but I could definitely see myself getting a big stretchy shirt and getting a balloon inflated under it, if I met a woman interested in doing that it might drive me nuts (in a good way of course).

Tue, 07/05/2016 - 18:43

(Reply to #5) #6

Another Canadian Guy

It doesn't really work for me either, but it's something I thought perhaps you can slightly get into anyways. I don't look at content so I apologize that I cannot help you on that front.

Comfort comes when you find a common ground. I ended up going to a furry convention because they had an inflatables panel there. Now trust me, I have nothing against furries but before that, I really wasn't comfortable around them. After meeting a couple 'real' people, I'm now much more comfortable and slowly being absorbed because there's that common ground and I'm wanting to be more a part of that now. My point is that I wasn't at all expecting that, but I remained open and I'm very glad I did, because now new doors and opportunities are open and I have more friends.

I'm only 22 so perhaps it's just a state of mind, but I wanted to mention that anyways.

Also just keep in mind that I've seen the body inflation community on there and it's not pretty. There might be good things but don't go in there expecting a gold-mine right off the bat. Could be I was in the wrong place, though, but I wanted to give fair warning.

(Not on here too often, replies might be slow.)

Tue, 07/05/2016 - 16:45

NameTaken

What shows up on your statements is between you, the bank, and Big Brother (let's be real though, the NSA likely doesn't give a shit).

Also keep in mind that any potential mates accepting your fetish doesn't matter if they don't actually care about you as a person. Anyone that truely loves you will be able to accept your fetish. Might want to scratch out the whole popping thing though, the term for real life popping is usually called "third degree murder" or "voluntary manslaughter".

Tue, 07/05/2016 - 22:34

free6skul

hi optimaprimal, i like the same stufs as you , and in maybe 20 years i never find a woman who like it.

but i initiate some with balloon stuffing inflation and it was cool , but not perfect because the where not relax about it.

i think the better way is to find a girl who want have fun, and open minded.

cheers

Wed, 07/06/2016 - 00:23

Margeret Moonlught

First, Welcome to the site! We sincerely hope you enjoy your stay, There's cool people, Great writing, All the good shit that any fetish site should have!

And that is quite the predicament you have there friendog, I mean I could probably maybe help potentially? Idk. I mean from the looks of things you need like, Legit IRL contact with someone to help you with this. I personally enjoy my anonymity, So my only offer to help is roleplay. Which I'm pretty good at, But still.

Regardless, I sincerely hope you both enjoy your stay here, And find help with your issue.

Love, -Margaret.

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Wed, 07/06/2016 - 06:50

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optimaprimal

@anothercanadianguy, it's alright, no worries!

furries are something else that just doesn't click for me, but i honestly never really understood why they draw so much hatred, especially considering how i've heard at least one other story about someone who wasn't a furry who ended up associating with a lot of them, and felt that most of them are actually really nice people. every community is a mixed bag, of course, but i always thought it was strange that they got so much negativity.

my age does affect things too. it took me a bit of extra time to graduate college so by the time i did, literally every friend i had was either my age or a year or two younger. and beyond that, i've had to rely on the internet for most of my friendships, and my two best friends are in their early twenties, and beyond that i don't have any friends at all that are older than me. this kind of also complicates things because i'd rather communicate with a woman who would be somewhat close to my age, or older. i really drew the short straw on all of this, eh? like i mentioned before, i wish my fetish wasn't specific to women because it'd just be easier. at least i know what works for me.

and thanks for the warning, it is noted!

@margaret thank you! i gotta poke around in the stories more, there seem to be a wide variety so i'm sure i could find some that match what i like.

i mean i haven't totally counted out roleplay but i dunno, i guess i'm from the old school where i'm always worried that the person i'm communicating with isn't who they say they are (which has happened before too unfortunately, so i'm sure that doesn't help matters either)

thank you for the warm welcome! i'm glad i've joined.

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