You've most likely heard of hatef*cking, but what about hateflation (or hate-inflation)?

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femboy
You've most likely heard of hatef*cking, but what about hateflation (or hate-inflation)?

I guess this is just a straight male thing but if someone of the opposite sex looks attractive then I find her attractive regardless of whether or not she's a despicable person. I've never known a straight female (at least admit to) finding a male attractive after knowing he's an awful person, and while i've dated a few girls who identified as either bisexual or pansexual, they were either 99% straight or they said they were either "attracted to personalities" or at least put alot of emphasis on them (same goes for lesbians i've known), yet despite that seemingly shallow aspect of myself my standards (in regards to dating) were never high, so if i'm seeking a romantic relationship with someone then of course personality will matter, and as an obsessive admirer of feminine curves I would say that most of the girls i've been with were either lacking in that department or were curvy-in-build-only (ie technically hourglass or pear-shaped but otherwise skinny to the point where there was little-to-no jiggling that I noticed, and I like jiggling), yet I never once fantasized of "enhancing" them via inflation because 1) I don't think any of them were into inflation and 2) the mere thought of it happening (even in a fictional context) to someone I had deep, non-shallow feelings for (and wasn't into it in the first place) didn't turn me on.

BUT! When it comes to someone of the opposite sex who I don't know personally and/or is a despicable person then my fantasies have no bounds, so even if I absolutely hate her guts, a hot chick is a hot chick regardless of what's in her head or heart, and if she's an awful person this actually makes me more likely to fantasize about her in a situation where she gets helplessly inflated because then the possibility of feeling bad or guilty is non-existent, so TL;DR is a sexually attractive person you hate a target for inflation (or anything that, in reality, is not good) fantasies?

airtankgirl5
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A few observations on the original post:
1. Women absolutely find despicable attractive men attractive.  Occassionaly more so than they should.
2. "Attracted to personalities" isn't really a thing.  It's like that "sapieo-sexual" bullshit.
3. Me personally, while I am absolutely positive the perv version of hatefucking exists (our fan fic is full of it) since I actually like expansion I cannot use it on people I don't like.  

YMMV

ATG

femboy

I figured some women did. I've just yet to hear one admit it. I'm a gender-noncomforming person from a small town so my social circle has never really been big and before college it was almost non-existent. Fortunately almost all of the friends I have/had have been female (probably the only reason I have a dating history since my girlfriends all started as being mere friends or friends-of-friends), though some studies have suggested that what women find attractive is often more subjective and varied compared to men and that certainly reflects my observations (unless you count yaoi, almost all of my girlfriends were either big yaoi fans or just fans of guy-on-guy stuff in general, yet that doesn't seem to be nearly as common as guys liking girl-on-girl stuff), and in my defense I myself do find some personalities traits to be attractive. Personality traits by themselves don't get my blood flowing but they can nonetheless be attractive, just not as much as my friends/girlfriends seem to think. They are difinitely more complex than me in that regard.

When I mention certain women that I hate but simultaneously find attractive to my female friends they all find it strange, especially when it comes to stupid, ignorant blow-up dolls (on a certain racist news channel owned by an Australian) the world would be better off without, and despite being partially of Jewish ancestry I find myself feeling nostalgic of when teenage me was obsessed with Tila Tequila in the mid-late 00s. Of course that was before she lost it and became a tinfoil hat-wearing Nazi who should also cease to exist, ideally as an hourglass-shaped blimp going up into the atmosphere until the decreasing pressure causes her to explode.

Lopni

she's cute, yet you can't fly to space oh a helium balloon, can you? Balloons have weight so as pressure decreases so does lifting force and balloon stabilizes on a certain height - usually a few hundred meters high, rarely higher. After than balloon pilot need to drop something down to lose weight - but Mrs Tila Tequila doesn't have many items to drop - heels, ladybag, lipstick, sun glasses won't win her much altitude. You'll have a balloon being there every morning you get up and you'll get used to greeting her on your way to/from work. Unless you are tired by the view and deflate her back to normal

At least that's how balloons work in our world ^_^

femboy

Your post made me chuckle.

My specialty is in information technology not pneumatics (I have used an air compressor to blow out the insides of PCs, though I prefer a DataVac because, aside from the fact that I think it's the better tool for the job, it doesn't cause me to have dirty thoughts about boobs, butts and curves because I have enough of those already), but this site is about fantasies anyways.

When referring to her as a "blimp" I wasn't thinking about a functional blimp that could be piloted (aside from the fact that i'm afraid of heights). I was thinking more along the lines of a movie villain somehow being inflated (such as being shot with that compressed gas capsule gun from Live and Let Die) and then floating up into the air before exploding, and since the topic is inflating someone you hate (but still find sexually attractive) I certainly wouldn't want to be "greeted" by her in the morning (again this is literally a fan of Hitler (and a flat-earther) we are talking about) so my fantasy would be for her to be somehow inflated into an hourglass-shaped balloon before exploding, ridding the world of her insanity while entertaining my obsession with the exaggerated female form.

Lopni

Sounds like majority of Classic Opera & Ballet (well except Iolanta who got lucky to see and start a family, and a few others)

femboy

Except Iolanta was blind at birth. If Tila Tequila's problem is blindness, then that's because she's probably the kind of person who would poke her own eyes out in order to get others to feel sorry for her and financially support her. I've worked in customer service jobs where some people will play some serious mind games in order to get something out of you. Sometimes they try to blame something on you so that they might get something for free and other times you don't know what they're trying to accomplish. Sometimes I think some older people will make up problems (in this case problems with devices that the devices don't actually have) because they're lonely and they just want someone to talk to. Other times some people will threaten you because they're just crazy. I'm from a place called Florida so I have alot of experience with people who are either pure evil or are in need of help that I am simply not qualified to give.

Lopni

oh I have nothing versus Mrs TT or any of Florida folks in general - nice actress, fun state! But you seem to be in the right place to blow up a lot of balloons and open a balloon shop